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    Default Playing into her frame

    So I'm texting with an okcupid HB9 and things are going great. We're almost finishing each others sentences we're so alike.

    Anyway, I played into her frame and I'm wondering if theres consequences for this or if its ok to be playful with sometimes.

    Her: "all the cool kids are going" (to swedish house mafia concert)
    Me: "thats impossible, i don't have tickets"
    Her "thats because theres no uncool people going"
    Me "I'm the ambassador of cool, before me there wasn't even a word to describe being that way"

    I'm definitely over thinking it but I still feel like should've said something different. I tried to be cocky funny but I feel like I might have let her have control there. Can anyone dissect this a bit for me, thanks!

    Edit:

    She responded with "I find it hard to believe that, if i looked at the word cool in the dictionary your dashing face would be there."

    Attraction levels must be really high. I just feel like playing into her frame like that is high risk. Am I understanding this theory?

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    Default Re: Playing into her frame

    Don't see anything up with this mate you had fun with it, she's going to be laughing. You can't just change a topic just cus she brought it up if ya get me.

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Playing into her frame

    Ohhh an I love the 'ambassador of cool' line, I'm going to steal it if ya don't mind

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Playing into her frame

    I just put up a post about frame control a moment ago
    http://www.puaforums.com/game/17574-...html#post71946

    In reality, this isn't bad.

    She wasn't really putting you in a negative frame, and you still somewhat controlled it by saying "that's impossible, I don't have tickets"
    You actually challenged her frame. And you stayed alpha.

    Seriously, its good, I think its funny.

    It would have been bad if you were like "oh so how do I get tickets?", that would be accepting her frame that you were not cool enough because you weren't going.

    But you didn't, you did good. Props.
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