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Thread: Girl didn't text back....?

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    Default Girl didn't text back....?

    I met this girl on a dating website, we talked for about three hours continuously and then i asked for her number, she gave it.

    So i text her every other day or so its been a week so far.

    She never texts me first but always replies when i do, in the starting when i send the first text of the day she replied within 10 mins, now the first text sometimes take 2hrs to reply, but after that its 10-15 mins back and forth texting sometimes i take longer.

    most recent conversation was yesterday, she was working that day. She works in a sports ground, her team lost yesterday. I cracked a joke about her interrupting the game, she said she was in the first aid room, i sent another joke text then asked what happened, she told me the reason and then i asked are you ok now? she replied yeah not bad...
    Then i said cool, i thought you would still be at work? (game had just finished) and got no reply its almost 24hrs. As i said before she had always replied to me and i don't think i said anything offensive.

    What should i do? not text her today, or text a general hey, ask what happened? as i said she never texts me first

    Also I did ask her out, she said she was busy, i asked when she would be free she said she doesnt know atm.
    I told her we cant keep talking over text and let me know soon. She said knows and she will

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    She probably got bored with the conversation, or put meant to respond later. Try and find some common ground, like some interests you both have, with things she genuinely wants to talk about.

    Also, If shes at work, she might not want to talk about stuff work related. Be her escape from reality!

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    I would suggest you wait a day or 2 before sending her another text otherwise you will come off ass needy. I also feel she got bored of the conversation. When you ask a lady on a date you never ask if she is available because that makes it easier for her to let you down. You rather want to tell her. Say something like myself and a few friends are going to X Y Z for a few drinks on Friday. Wanna tag along? Women want you to take control and tell them rather then ask them.

    If you havent heard from her then Send her a text on Tuesday or Wednesday saying.... What's going on, little swan? Your not in jail are you? (I hope not cos I can't afford to bail you out) ha ha

    It's short and funny and has worked great for me in the past

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    update...
    On the third day of no talk shes messaged me first saying hey u ok?,
    i replied few hours later i kept it simple... gd thanks hun you? been up to much?
    she replied not bad thanks, and told me was out in so and so place tonight and asked about me.
    i said i just finished work and planning to go out with mates and asked what she was doing where she went was she planning to party as a joke...

    again no reply...

    just feel like giving up on this girl, shall i just say if you dont wanna talk delete my number and i'll do the same.

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    Quote Originally Posted by Skyeagle View Post

    shall i just say if you dont wanna talk delete my number and i'll do the same.
    no.

    +30

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    then what shall i do?
    how can i save the situation so to speak
    because this is a second time she didnt respond

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    Quote Originally Posted by Skyeagle View Post
    i said i just finished work and planning to go out with mates and asked what she was doing where she went was she planning to party as a joke...
    This is boring. I would have cut off after her 2nd text.

    I would wait few days and do exactly what Supremo said. "I'm going for a drink on Friday, join me to cause some trouble".

    No response or counteroffer = next her. Do not send messages like above. Just delete her number and all the history.

    I do this every time a girl does something I really don't like even when I've seen them multiple times already. Prevents me from sending stupid texts and is really easy way to be a challenge. If they won't contact me, then oh well, it wouldn't have been that fun anyway.

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    Batsy is right. Don't extend yourself, especially not repeatedly. If the woman in question isn't responding (this could be because the conversation isn't stimulating) then move on. From what you've posted, there hasn't even been contact between you two yet, so it doesn't seem worth stressing over.

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    Default Re: Girl didn't text back....?

    calling her "hun" lol that's a bit too forward before a meet up / meeting her regardless, even if it's natural to u


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