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    raine is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Girl was into me 9 months ago

    Alright so heres the story

    This girl, we'll call her jane, added me on fb 9 month ago ish

    i asked if i knew her, the response was something like this

    " noo sorry xxx added you on my fb on accident"

    then i said " oh ok" didnt think too much of it, then she said " no i'm just kidding, my friend ( we'll call her jessica) like wants you, add her on facebook.

    now at the time i had a girlfriend so i couldn't really make a move, but we broke up shortly after, then then 2-3 months after the breakup i added jessica on fb but never initiated contact, she accepted, and we've been on eachothers friendslist for like...2-3 months now..

    how do i go about talking to her without sounding like " hey i added you like...3 months ago but NOW i think i'm actually going to talk to you "

    keep in mind i've never met this girl jessica in person, nor do i even know how she knows who i am and how she could have "wanted me" 7-9 months ago ish. But thats my situation right now..any help greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    Oooh facebook!! Tough one lol well let's start by hoping she's still single. I been working very hard at trying to pickup in face book but have come to realize that the only thing it has worked for me is to show girls how social and fun I am but picking up girls in Facebook is very difficult. Just be wall friends and tease her a little. Once u build enough rapport you should ask her for her number then escalate to a date. Just don't make it seem like you take Facebook waybtoo serious. Good luck my friend. Hope it goes well.

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    raine is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    she's still single, i feel like if i just randomly start posting on her wall and or liking her posts or w/e ( the very VERY few she posts) i'd seem kinda random and weird...which is not how i intend to come off at all...=\

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    Gmin23 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    I've done it and it could seem that Wat just don't start liking every single thing she posts. Or liking all if her pics cus then you'll seem needy. But usually women I've done that with. Usually complete strangers don't really mind. Just as long as its something funny and appropriate. And u should probably ask her friend about her maybe she can hook you two up or let you know about some party where you can see this gal.

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    raine is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    the thing is, she doesn't really post on fb that much. her fb updates/pictures are very far and few between, so if i go through and like old photos doesn't it kinda seem..creeperish?

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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    Na I mean u have to somehow let her know you're into her but also not completely obsessed and looking at every thing she puts. Maybe she'll start getting on face book more after you start approaching her. We're naturally curious and I don't find it wrong at all. You can add me on fb if ud like to show you how I go about it.

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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    well, after i like a photo or status or whatever to get myself noticed, how do i go about talking to her via chat or w/e facebook calls it.

    what would be a good opener?

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    Default Re: Girl was into me 9 months ago

    just be straight up man. tell her hey your pretty good looking how the heck did you get on my friends lists. it sounds crummy, but its a good opener. she'll probably be like idk. but it'll get the ball rolling. get a conversation going and build up some value with her. just to recap. open, start talking, get her interested, be cool, let her comone to you, then you come on to her to her number. set up date and progress. good luck and cheers.
    ps don't make a big deal about the time difference


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