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  1. #1
    usctrojan48 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Hung out last night...what does this all mean...

    I havent talked to my ex in over a year. I broke up with my girl a month a go and called me ex 2 weeks later (the girl this post is about).

    flash forward 2 weeks to yesterday.


    so she texted me this morning and said "lets hangout"

    She came over my house, remember i havent seen her in a year. She looks good. we goof around and talk for a little bit, then we start watching a movie. I sit on the opposite side of the sofa not trying to creep on her and cuddle. She lays across the couch and puts her feet in my lap, she is making all the contact. We start talking over the movie and somehow my body got brought up, I told her i have been working on my back...she insisted she saw it...so i took my shirt off and showed her (weird right?). I honestly wasnt trying to bang her (i wanna take things slow and not ruin it) I put my shirt back on. Then she started talking about her boobs shrinking since I last saw her, she took my hand and guided my hand and made me grab them. Then we started cuddling under a blanket and watching the movie. I screwed up and tried to kiss her kinda, didnt work.

    Then we ordered a pizza, watched some movies and pretty much cuddled up the whole time. Although she did talk A LOT about sex. just about two different guys she dated since i last saw her over a year a go. She got into details about sex and stuff with them....kind of awkward. Trying to make me jealous??

    She has to wake up early for work so she left, we hung out and cuddled around for like over 6 hours. Her actions show that she is interested but it was weird her talking about sex with other dudes and stuff....dunno what to make of that.

    Thoughts?

    then she texted me late last night saying "I had fun....i feel like we will always go back to talking to each other in our life no matter what lol".... "we can be best friends for life!"


    what does all this mean?

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    Kliko is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Hung out last night...what does this all mean...

    "we can be best friends for life!" With benefits, from the looks of it!

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    Major is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Hung out last night...what does this all mean...

    I think she was trying to gain power. By putting her feet on you. By getting you to take your shirt off. By getting you too touch her breasts on her terms. Then pulling back from the kiss. If I have learnt anything from this forum is that you are the prize, dont make yourself too available and try and get her to jump through some hoops. It sounds like she likes you though bro, my advice would just be to try and make her work for it a bit more.
    “All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up in the day to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”

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    Kaybee is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Hung out last night...what does this all mean...

    She's setting the frame here, and you're being pulled into it. Watch out.

    I don't mean to be pessimistic but it looks like you are just an emotional cushion for her, or at least that's what she wants you to be. You will fill all her affection and emotional needs while she is busy screwing other guys until she finds the "right guy". It seems you have been slotted in the "gay friend" category by accepting her frame and listening to her sex stories about other guys.

    Now, if you are seeing other girls, there is nothing wrong with being a cuddle buddy, but if this is your path to getting some action, you are going about it in a very roundabout, deceptive way and it probably won't work.

    I say don't put too much hope on this one, stop accepting the frames she's setting and instead set YOUR frames and actively seek to meet new and possibly better women

    Edit: Just noticed the date of the original post.... Any update on the situation?

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    Major is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Hung out last night...what does this all mean...

    Yeah dont listen to me, listen to what he said.
    “All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up in the day to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”


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