Went out last night with an aquaintances' sister. (10+. Off the charts, ex-model, smart, successful, doesn't go out much. Whole package kinda girl aka missusmaterial) Talked once, texted a few times before the meet. Been following all the "rulz" and it paid. She was texting me before the meet on "off" days...so I was confident going in.
Afternoon coffee and gallery walking ended 13 hours later after all that plus dinner, dancing, drinks. (Although we both definately stayed sober, she was using "we" references in the first hour after we ran into a mutual girl-friend who whispered to her "he's a keeper" as she left. gotta love a wingwoman)
This gal was adamant about getting to her two dogs and she lives 30min away. Read "i'm not sleeping with you on the first date".
She gave me a ride home, and K-closed after talking about her schedule for next week. She said if I was in her neighborhood today to send her a message otherwise she had a day off late in the week. (she always replies to me RIGHT away, and texts me more than I her)
I did the unthinkable this afternoon and actually DID text her. (dumass)
ME: hey. did you get some good rest?
her: (an hour later) oh my goodness. so exhausted.
ME: was going to be in your neighborhood later. are you too exhausted to take the dogs for a little walk?
her: (instantly) just came back from one. i forgot how to have energy after a night like that......
Me: (10 min) i actually have zero motivation to go do errands.
her: (instantly) sorry.
I didnt respond, partly bc i realized I effed up by texting today regardless of being near her house.
My thoughts are to do NOTHING for the next 2 days. She has the day off in 4, and regardless of if I set something up for that day or not, I DO want to see this girl again.