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Thread: Advice after an excellent first date

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    Default Advice after an excellent first date

    Went out last night with an aquaintances' sister. (10+. Off the charts, ex-model, smart, successful, doesn't go out much. Whole package kinda girl aka missusmaterial) Talked once, texted a few times before the meet. Been following all the "rulz" and it paid. She was texting me before the meet on "off" days...so I was confident going in.


    Afternoon coffee and gallery walking ended 13 hours later after all that plus dinner, dancing, drinks. (Although we both definately stayed sober, she was using "we" references in the first hour after we ran into a mutual girl-friend who whispered to her "he's a keeper" as she left. gotta love a wingwoman)


    This gal was adamant about getting to her two dogs and she lives 30min away. Read "i'm not sleeping with you on the first date".

    She gave me a ride home, and K-closed after talking about her schedule for next week. She said if I was in her neighborhood today to send her a message otherwise she had a day off late in the week. (she always replies to me RIGHT away, and texts me more than I her)

    I did the unthinkable this afternoon and actually DID text her. (dumass)

    ME: hey. did you get some good rest?
    her: (an hour later) oh my goodness. so exhausted.
    ME: was going to be in your neighborhood later. are you too exhausted to take the dogs for a little walk?
    her: (instantly) just came back from one. i forgot how to have energy after a night like that......
    Me: (10 min) i actually have zero motivation to go do errands.
    her: (instantly) sorry.


    I didnt respond, partly bc i realized I effed up by texting today regardless of being near her house.


    My thoughts are to do NOTHING for the next 2 days. She has the day off in 4, and regardless of if I set something up for that day or not, I DO want to see this girl again.


    Your thoughts??

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    Default Re: Advice after an excellent first date

    props to the 13 hour first date (y) she likes you quite alot to be with you for 13 hrs

    that last msg didn't require you to respond, sometimes it's good not to respond, just set up a date in 2 days and you'll be all good, don't give her the choice, you set it

    GL and keep us posted

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    Default Re: Advice after an excellent first date

    I agree with hyp. You obviously did well with the date and she clearly wants to see you again. Give it a day or 2 before trying again but make sure you have some solid plans, so that when you do try again you tell her where you going, what time youll pick her up (use an odd time like 7:17 or 20:23). It adds a bit of humor to the text. Be careful not to text too much because you have more risk of messing up. Otherwise well done on playing it cool with a HB 10 man

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    Default Re: Advice after an excellent first date

    Awesome...

    Thanks guys. Relaxed and confident again. JUST where I need to be.

    I have a MAJOR problem over analyzing when I'm by myself. Sit me in front of a girl and its a different game. The text game especially makes me crazy with waiting for replies. Another thing I like about this one ^.

    I will def keep you posted. Thanks again for taking a minute to comment.

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    Default Re: Advice after an excellent first date

    Didn't take long for the update...

    She called me as soon as she got out of work today. Totally threw me as I was in another mind set, but picked up the Agame instantly. Had her laughing the whole time, threw around some innuendo, told her not to think of me and my dirty "mo" that was about to get in the shower (reason to leave first).

    Hit on some "inside" jokes from Sat. She left the door wide open for her day off later this week, so going to stick to my plan.

    Hung up with her laughing....I'm KILLING this right now....patting myself on the back? You effin BET! Ha!

    Let the game continue....


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