I've been seeing this HB for two months now, we see each other 2-3x per week and always spend the night together and hook up every time.
On Saturday early afternoon I called her up and asked about her plans. I was hitting the city with friends that afternoon and beginning of the night so I wanted to hook up in the evening. She says that she is free probably after 10pm. I'm ok, I'll be at your place at 10. She tells that she will text me later when she is going home.
Yeah, tentative plans. Mistake. Giving her power to make me to wait her to contact. Mistake.
Anyway I finish my business with friends around 9.30pm and nothing from her. I decide to go home as I'm quite tired already from all the sports I've done lately plus a bit drunk. Get home and go straight to sleep. I wake up at 1.30am her calling. Pick up and tell her I'm sleeping. She is sorry to wake me up and my response is just to wish a good night.
In the morning I check my phone. She has sent a message 11.30pm that she's home, where am I? 00.40pm "helloo?" before she called an hour later.
I call back shortly after I wake up and invite her to my place at 6pm. I get some sort of resistance by her saying that she doesn't know her schedule yet for that day and has to sleep at home the next night. I tell her to get a calendar from her company as she can't manage her time otherwise and say bye. Basically at this point I decided to freeze her out a bit as she was being distant and somewhat cold.
I go out and return home 8.30pm, finding her waiting at the door of my front, outside. Apparently she has been waiting there for me for more than half an hour, dropping chocolate from my letter drop and waiving sausages in front of my door eye as she thought I was angry and wouldn't open door to her (this might have been a test). Then she realized I'm not probably home and waited for me even though she had no idea when I would arrive and did not know where I was. This melted my heart a bit and I let her inside, she cooked for me (she bought the stuff herself before she came), watched a movie and hooked up twice in the evening and once in the morning.
Now, we met three days in a row before this and then had very little communication during the next three days (only few texts). So she was being somewhat distant and contacted me very late anyway on Saturday night. Was cold in the morning and then did a complete 180 turn around few hours later. This morning I teased her more about getting a calendar, she smiled and kissed me. Then she continued to talk about how busy and awesome her week is gonna be.
What the hell is going on here? What's up with all the inconsistency and hot 'n cold acts?