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Thread: Hook up, gone wrong... maybe

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    Default Hook up, gone wrong... maybe

    Ok i say maybe because I might be able to recover from this one. But let me start from the beginning. She is my neighbor (HB8-9) and I invited her over for my Bday party. She showed, eventually we got to drinking and they started going down easier and easier. We talked and chatted some of the night, i didnt give her all of my attention. She eventually had to leave and said "dont drink to much" and i replied with ill be up all night drinking. Thats when she said yea right... That was my opportunity, so i said " lets bet, if im in bed my midnight i buy you a case of beer and you have to share it tomorrow night and if im up you buy me a case of beer and ill think about sharing it". Well she agreed. of course i passed out drunk and had to buy her a case of beer.

    So that brings us to the next night. I Bring over the case of beer, and she shares like we agreed. And eventually we are trashed, maybe me more then her. And here is where i fucked up and it gets really interesting. At some point in the night we have made it back to my place, She gets on top of me and says "fuck me" i was shocked i didnt know what to do and then she repeats herself. At this point im way to drunk to even think about performing, and secondly i honestly kinda dig this chick and didnt want to smash and ruin any possible chances ( i know, stupid right?) So not knowing what to do or say i kinda waited it out and she said "wait, do you have a condom? Boom im saved from humiliating myselg by trying to perform, i did have one but i didnt tell her that i made it seem as if i didnt. so she said ok and we kissed blah blah blah. we managed to make it back to her place and we started talking and she started telling me how she was into me and i told her the same. so as i was leaving she says "i guess we will see how you feel about me tomorrow".

    Ok the next morning i went over to get some of my shit that i left over at her place and we kinda laughed at how trashed her place was but we didnt talk about what happened. We have texted back and forth here and there but nothing serious. I cant seem to grab her attention again, i dont want to text to much and come off as needy or clingy but damn the ball was in my court. Now her responses are short and pointless. I need some help fellas i have to be able to save this one. its been about a month since this incident...

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    Default Re: Hook up, gone wrong... maybe

    Not sure but you might have fucked it up. Go out and date some other girls so you aren't so concentrated on her. Freeze her out for a while then send her a cocky, funny text out of the blue. Make sure you're being playful and not caring about the outcome, girls can smell that shit.

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    Default Re: Hook up, gone wrong... maybe

    Duudddee lol. Turning down a f_close cuz u didn't wanna make it awkward? Well guess what? Thats exactly what u did! She feels like a slut.. Might be beyond repair. Live and learn.. Never turn down a fark unless you have a plan on how to spin it into something better.

    My suggestion... Throw another party and invite her. She wont come onto you though... she learned her lesson. Your going to have to make it obvious that you want her after some serious DHVing/life of the partyness.

    You got this.

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    Default Re: Hook up, gone wrong... maybe

    You have to let it ride man. You can't go backwards in relationships, your only hope is to jump right back in. Text her: "Good news. I found a condom" and leave it at that. The only way to not make her feel awkward about the sexuality is to own it.

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    Default Re: Hook up, gone wrong... maybe

    I had almost the exact same situation as an OP but the target was hammered and I wasnt. I ended up messing up an F-close. Pretty much went down hill from their.

    Follow up. Target was at another party I was at. Now with "bf" (not to sound cocky, but I could have blown him out). I could tell I still she had some stuff for me.

    Honestly, the best point would be to just lay off for a while. Keep it VERY casual. It may not raise your dhv, but it will show a lack of neediness. Pursue other HBs. When the moment presents itself try again.


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