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    Default Not so sure about my gf

    So the other night me and my girl was talking on the phone. No big deal we do that every night. She said she needed to go to get ready for tomorrow. It was about midnight so I said ok nothing out of the ordinary. I figure out the next day that's he left her apartment for about 2 hours about 1 am to 3 am. She won't tell me what she was doing all she says is she had something to take care of. To me this sounds and looks bad on her part. She says she does not have to explain anything to me. What do you guys think?
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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    That sucks, how long have you been going out? Anything else she has been doing lately like dressing up more, makeup, workout out? Is she more on edge lately with you? These are indicators... If she has friends that you chat with you might go to them and ask if things are ok with her, although it's not likely you will get them to speak up, you can definitely tell through body language if someone is holding something back.

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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Well she's in new York right now and will be until halfway through December. I do have her friends numbers but Her best friend isin France working and her sister would tell me. Plus her family loves me so I doubt she would tell any of them. We have been dating off and on for 6 months. the only other thing I can think of is she never tells me who she hangs with. She like I have to go see a friend. This happens a lot
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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Are you guys officially together? Generally, in my experience, your gut will tell you something is up. A man at her house from 1 to 3 and then leaving after about two hours, and she tells you its none of your business. Even if she wasn't cheating, I probably wouldn't tolerate that. She knows what you are thinking it is, and if she refuses to clarify, it shows to me she is being selfish.

    It sucks to be in that situation man, but follow what your gut says, don't lie to yourself.

    Just read your last post. Honestly, if you guys aren't exclusive then it truly isn't your business who she sees or what she does man. That is a benefit of an exclusive relationship.
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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Hmm... well the thing that sucks is, if she is going to cheat, she is going to cheat, and there is nothing you can do to change that by pressuring her more. You talk to her daily? Her interest level could be dropping, and it sounds like it is, and by asking her where she is going or doing will (sadly) only make it worse (read clingyness). If it were me, I would freeze her out, in the words of George Costanza "I got no hand Jerry!" You need to get your power back.

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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Yes we are official. And she never said anyone was over all she said was she had to take care of something. I just texted her how was class and she said she skipped because she had to go see someone
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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Hmm... does she have family or something back east? I ask because the only other thing I could think of is maybe a family related issue that is personal????

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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    If I don't reply she gets really mad at me. And it's not like out of nowhere I'm like who what when where and why. She says she's gonna hang with Someone all I say what are you guys gonna do. Yes we talk everyday if I don't send good morning she asks what's wrong.
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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Does she have family back in New York? Is there any reason why she would be keeping this quiet? Think about it...

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    Default Re: Not so sure about my gf

    Her sis lives there but she would tell me that. Her parents live by me and shes living with another of her good friends. So no other family is up there
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