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Thread: No text back? Lost interest?

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    Default No text back? Lost interest?

    I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible. A few weeks ago, I was leaving a restaurant and was approached by a woman at my passenger window. Conversation lasted a minute or two and she kept talking about how she couldn't help but admire my car. Anyways, I realized I left something inside the restaurant, went inside to get it, and her phone number was written on a piece of paper stuck under my windshield wiper. Sent her a text the next day, we texted for an hour or so and the chemistry seemed good. She is a few years older than myself and did told me "I was a nice guy and mature for my age, but jailbait! " Not sure if I just got sent to the friend zone, but after that, she told me she still wanted to go out to dinner to get to know me better. We agreed to set up a date a week later due to a hectic week. I sent her a text asking how her week was, she immediately responded, I asked her if she had any plans for the night, and got nothing back. I haven't talked to her since the weekend and I don't want to come off as pushy or needy, even though she was the one that initiated almost all of the contact. I'm open to any type of constructive criticism as i'm undecided as to if she has lost interest or is just playing hard to get. I definitely don't want to be labeled as needy by contacting her again. Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: No text back? Lost interest?

    I definitely don't want to be labeled as needy by contacting her again.
    you answered it yourself (y)

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    Default Re: No text back? Lost interest?

    you didnt send her anything interesting man. you need to send a message that will trigger her emotions. make her laugh at a stupid joke or anything. you know how many guys ask her what you did on a regular basis? alot lol
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: No text back? Lost interest?

    Exactly. Don't text or call her. At least not for three maybe four days. She's trying to play the "I was busy game" to see if you are needy. Or quite simply she could just be really busy. But even So when a girl is into you she'll text right away or call. So just relax grab some popcorn and watch the show. And in the meanwhile. Hit up some other breezys. Go kick it with ur friends. Work on day game. Watch porn haha keep urself busy sobyou won't be thinking about this broad. And also don't invest too much emotion into her so u don't start trippin off her not talking to you and whatnot. Let her earn your heart. Think about what u truly want in a woman then fall for her ;p good luck homie

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    Default Re: No text back? Lost interest?

    Oh and after those days pass then send. A funny text like: what's up so u at the retirement home now or what??? ;pp haha neg+joke. Thatll grab her attention. Just don't set up a date right away let her work for it. That's if she doesn't text first.

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    Default Re: No text back? Lost interest?

    Thanks for all of the replies. I'll definitely wait it out over the next few days and see what happens.


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