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    Default Girl wanted date but doesnt initiate contact?

    Ive known this girl a while now and we bumped into each other at bar with friends. We ended up chilling as one big group.

    So after a while one of her friends came and said to me ' i think * her name* likes you and wants you to take her on a date so after a while i asked her and she ageed. We agreed to go on a double date with our friend to make it more fun.

    The next day i contacted thru facebook as she asked me to after that night n we chatted for a bit and i got her number. i left it a few days before contacted. problem is now though she never contacts me, i always have to initiate it with her but she always replys. I am not going to lie the conversations are spectacular but do try to have some fun with her .

    The dat was meant to be this weekend but he friend's date cancelled and now wants my girl to go out with her. i told her it was cool and we'll arrange for another time and then never replied.

    I usually wait 3-4 days before thinking about texting her again and try to throw in a joke if she hasnt contacted me .

    Shes out this weekned so dont know wether i should just wait until then n see her uptown n see how it goes and not mention anything. ?

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    Default Re: Girl wanted date but doesnt initiate contact?

    Come on guys help a brother out. Need to know where am going wrong.

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    Default Re: Girl wanted date but doesnt initiate contact?

    "Double dates" are NEVER more fun..... That's mistake #1 (just remember that)

    Also-
    When you asked her out & she agreed, you should have gotten her number then. (that's #2)

    When a girl is already interested, DON'T wait a couple days to contact her. She wants you to get ahold of her. It's OK to show some amount of interest. (mistake #3)

    If your friend's date cancelled.... Too bad, so sad for him! YOU take YOUR girl out anyway. You don't let your friend take her out. (mistake #4)

    Your best bet is to go direct with flirting & express a fun vibe.
    Otherwise you're gonna lose out.


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    Default Re: Girl wanted date but doesnt initiate contact?

    Thanks for ur response.

    Well what happened was the other couple cancelled and th girl just asked me date to go out instead with asking me. So i never knew until i text her couple days later.

    I dont want to come off needy to her because its always me starting the conversations, she will never initiate.

    The only way i found out that th date was off was through her friend when he text me.

    But uve planned for us to have some drinks tomorrow.

    Does it make me look needy though if i always initiate? I will always wait a couple days once we stop.

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    Default Re: Girl wanted date but doesnt initiate contact?


    The dat was meant to be this weekend but he friend's date cancelled and now wants my girl to go out with her. i told her it was cool and we'll arrange for another time and then never replied.
    what T Mal said. riffing on that, when you say you'll arrange another time, it's pretty airy fairy, just say alright , friday 730 it is (y)


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