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    crusgner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post HB 8.5 doing the waiting game while texting

    Hey so one time at a party I easily n-closed this HB. I really hooked her and she was just really into it especially when I did the cube she thought I was like jesus and that I knew everything about her.

    Well my problem is in texting with this girl. When I text her I do everything by the guidelines of texting. I text her with something silly/funny she responds I write back giving plenty hooks for her to carry on, and then she answers after 3 hours to which I donít respond soI donít show neediness.

    Today I texted her again (she always seems really happy that I wrote to her) and same thing happened. I text her she replies I respond and then she responds AFTER FARKING 6 hours like nothing happened. I didnít reply once again and just left it how it is. Now can anyone tell me what in the world this girl is doing. Is she just sh1t testing me or is she just not interested. I believe sheís sh1t testing me because if she wasnít interested she wouldnít bother to reply after 6 hours.

    At the party where I met her she gave me plenty ioiís and when she texts me I feel that sheís really excited to talk to me, but then she doesnít reply for hours. I donít think sheís that busy because sheís a student and doesnít work. Share your ideas what you think is going on.

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    Default Re: HB 8.5 doing the waiting game while texting

    Try calling her.

    Maybe she's not big on texting, but more of a "talker" kind of girl.

    And sometimes, girls are just bad about responding.

    But any response at all (whether it's right away, or after a while) is at least an indicator that she hasn't completely written you off.


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    Default Re: HB 8.5 doing the waiting game while texting

    Just try not to worry about it soo much... she may just be busy, or as T-mal says she might just be one of those people that is bad at replying in general

    I have a friend who takes days to reply and I've known her since I was 10 and we are very close. Some people are just like that...

    One girl actually admitted to me that she used to wait a long time before texting back because she liked me and did'nt want us to blow through all the conversation before we had a date, she wanted to hear what I had to say in person..

    In short there are many reasons for it... My advice is twofold!

    1) try to get a busier lifestyle, have other things going on and that way you will barely notice who texts who and when.

    2) I like to date more than one girl at a time, this way when you stop yourself from obsessing over one girl. I don't advocate cheating when in a realtionship obv, but when you're single there is nothing wrong with dating multiple women.

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    crusgner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: HB 8.5 doing the waiting game while texting

    You guys are absolutely right.

    I want to explain a few things. I mightíve come across as very obsessed or sort of emotional about this girl which is not true. I have other girls which Iím doing pretty well with, so sheís not my prime target. She makes me mad because she is acting totally different to what Iím used to. Iíve done quite a few text games and this is the first time that Iíve seen something like this.

    I mean itís like this girl is being a pua and doing the exact same things. Sheís doing push and pull and also freeze outs. This puts my head spinning because thatís the first HB that has done something like this. Iím frustrated mostly because things arenít going to what Iím used to. Thatís why I wrote here so we can brainstorm and think of some solution when something like this happens to someone.

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    Default Re: HB 8.5 doing the waiting game while texting

    the only advice i can give you is don't make a big deal of it.
    she is responding, so you keep responding. there is no need to not respond when she text you 6 hours later maybe that's the moment she is free for some texting. If you are really busy than you won't be able to respond. But if you are not respond and get on with your text game. The thing about not responding right away is not being available all the time (having a life) and not, on purpose not responding to fake a life.


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