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    Default not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    hey princess candy lol gosh that sounds like a stipper name.
    ( it was her name on meetme)
    her:who is this?

    its ...... from meetme you gave me your number yesterday

    her: lol okay. whats up?

    oh you know sky diving lol no im in my room doing some math. i need a break.

    her: lol then take a break. are you in high school?

    heck no lol im in college. college work sucks just as much as high school work lol

    her: lol okay good. haha

    your in college right?

    her: i could be.. lol nah. im not going to college. rather not go through school again.

    i dont blame you lol what do you do? wait let me guess... you train tigers? haha

    her: lol oh yeah. i do absolutely nothing. im taking a break from everything. no school,job,church..l ol just casino, pool hall and watch football

    well how about you take time out of your busy schedule lol and come watch a movie with me

    her: lol hmmmm. i dont know. can you handle me?
    (she sent a pic of herself after this)

    haha hey i said watch a movie. now if your talking about trying to distract me psh i could handle you easily

    her: lol hmmm. okay.

    id say tonight is fine with me actually but im sure your sooooo busy lol

    her: im never busy.

    well then come over

    her: im fixing to take a nap. =)

    lol see its you who couldnt handle me
    ( no response for the rest of the day)

    ( this is today)
    hey candy done with nap time

    her: hey.

    idk what to say!! she was giving me hints but now is cold help!
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    you didnt need to build attraction at first because otherwise she wouldnt have asked if you could handle her, but for some reason you pretty much told her that your just watching a movie. she feels like a slut now because you ejected her, she might be embarassed, or she could be pretending shes not interested in order to make you jump through her hoops.

    i would get a little conversation going and give her a qualifier and start to push n pull her. be cautious though and make sure your disqualifiers are lighter
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    Default Re: not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    so make jokes and just tease her. because i do want to f close her. now she is just being really short with me
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    yeah i mean what i would have said when she asked if you can handle her woulda been something more flirty like "if you can handle being tickled in the boring parts" or something else that doesnt tell her anything more about what your planning on doing. that should be a mystery, when you ask a girl to watch a movie, she knows the movie will be background.
    now i would just try to get a small conversation going, just to get her talking because when a girl says "hey" and nothing else shes uninterested. so focus on just getting a conversation going. talk to her about pool or something and set yourself up for a qualifier. just give her something to shoq her you want to do more than watch a movie with her since it seems like thats what she wanted. as far as the disqualifiers go i wouldnt use more that a small neg and teasing. im sorry im being so vague but i dont really know much about her, or what exactly shes thinking or why exactly she replied just "hey"
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    Default Re: not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    Try not to ask questions... (Girls don't like being "put on the spot".)

    Instead, make statements.
    Make assumptions about her: what she's doing, what she likes, etc....
    It puts less pressure on her because she doesn't have to think of an answer. She can just make a statement reply.

    If you do it right & inject humor in your assumption, she'll come back with a funny reply of her own. This is what you want, because it puts her in the right mood & Mindset for breaking through her defense shields.

    Don't try to engage her in a conversation early on.
    Instead, just make little teasing, fun comments about a topic for one or two rounds, then switch to another.
    (Repeat a few times)

    The key is: ALWAYS think "fun".



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    Default Re: not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    yeah lets go with that. lol tmal knows whats up. i didnt mean engage her in deep cnversation, just get her talking enough to set yourself up for a qualifier. tmals way works better tho
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    Default Re: not sure how to build attraction with new girl

    well i went with pick pirate or ninja lol she picked pirate and a few messages after that sent me a pic with no clothes on. i didnt even ask lol but idk how to respond to it. i just said are you trying to turn me on =)
    im on a different level


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