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    Default Got an opener... how to keep going?

    After a few attempts with a girl on a dating site i really like i got her to answer:

    communication attempt #345.2

    I'm quite the persistent guy so here we go again. You look like someone who thinks WAY too much about things. And because of the relentless wondering about the consequences you end up missing a lot. I am offering you the chance to meet the most incredibly -out of this world- amazing guy ever. Or you get your money back. Seriously.

    If, for once, you want to be open to something new and downright mind blowing, you will go out with me on friday. (offer valid through thursday, nov 30, or while supplies last)

    Nov 29, 2012 – 8:32pm
    I don't see any other message from you but I think I remember your nickname. Anything in particular you would like to discuss?





    i get what she is doing, i broke trough the first Bitch Shield (she has a Very low message answer ratio) and now im going to the logic shield. I have to keep her interested

    so im shuffling these ideas

    1= go completely absurd (something about albino manatees mating in nigeria)
    2= call out her mental strategy
    3= go direct and ask her out to find out (something in the lines of, who said anything about discussing something?)


    thoughts?

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    Default Re: Got an opener... how to keep going?

    You can't build attraction by trying to appeal to a girl's logical brain. That's not how it works; so don't go that route for sure. (The mental strategy idea).

    You need to trigger her emotional switches.

    Logic is what makes girls have resistance & causes them to put up their defense shields.

    Also- don't ask her out before you build attraction. (That's where a lot of guys make a mistake & end up bombing; because the girl is more likely to decline.)

    You're better off taking idea #1 and adjusting it so it's not too bizarre. The originality aspect is great; but if it's too weird, she's going to think that you're too strange.

    Think fun, original, entertaining & flirty.
    (Don't be afraid to flirt!!)

    Based on her response, I'd personally go with something that expresses intelligence & intellect. An example would be:

    "Well, we could discuss socioeconomics... but that lacks fun. How 'bout we talk about our favorite cereal? I'm personally fond of Cap'n Crunch myself! What's your favorite?"

    It also shows creativity & a fun, playful, silly side.



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    Default Re: Got an opener... how to keep going?

    Hey guys I tried this one on 4 girls so far and got 2 replies hoping for help from here please.

    See my thread here:
    Open online now what?


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