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    Default Critique text game (I've learned things from the last girls)

    Taking things i learned from the last 3 girls, I closed a number with another girl and we started texting. Here is a bit we texted today and I would like some critiques and advice since PUA Forums have helped me a ton in the past.

    This girl speaks English and Spanish and likes the rain so i decided to use that as an opener. (I also added translations for those who don't speak/understand Spanish.

    Me: :La lluvia es bueno no? "The rain is good no?"

    Her: Si me encanta la lluvia =)
    "Yes. I love the rain"

    (I wait a bit instead of texting her back immediately)

    Me: Rainy weather + music here = awesome. So what are you up to?

    Her: Haaha yuup =) Waiting for the bus to go to work.


    Me: I hope you are at least smiling. If not just think of me! (I did borrow this from the PUA list of flirt text guide).


    Her: Hahaha wow....yeees im smiling.

    Overall what would be your thoughts on this exchange? Is there anything I could do improve it? I closed it off here for now.

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    Default Re: Critique text game?

    I'm gonna say you're doing just fine.

    Don't wait to reply back if you initiate a text & she responds right away... That looks too contrived.

    Too many guys are afraid of getting into "Rapid Fire Reply" mode, thinking it'll make them look needy. That's not the case. If you text her & she fires one back seconds later, go ahead & get in the groove!

    You can build a lot of solid attraction (and some rapport) when doing that.

    Other than that, I can dig what you're going with.



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    Default Re: Critique text game?

    Too many guys are afraid of getting into "Rapid Fire Reply" mode, thinking it'll make them look needy.
    i agree with this to an extent, if the convos flowing then it's cool, but if it's a bit stale distance the replies or make them at random times

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    Default Re: Critique text game?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    I'm gonna say you're doing just fine.

    Don't wait to reply back if you initiate a text & she responds right away... That looks too contrived.

    Too many guys are afraid of getting into "Rapid Fire Reply" mode, thinking it'll make them look needy. That's not the case. If you text her & she fires one back seconds later, go ahead & get in the groove!

    You can build a lot of solid attraction (and some rapport) when doing that.

    Other than that, I can dig what you're going with.

    I don't want to come on strong or needy since we just started texting and me flirting really hard with her could backfire and make her possibly uncomfortable. I kinda waited an hour to reply (i was legitimately doing something), so hopefully it doesn't look to contrived to her. I am also seriously taking it slow this time and not making any mistakes, my last date/thread really showed me that I need to stop saying everything that does not need to be said and also don't rush into things.

    She is at work at the moment, so i definitely know that she won't be able to respond right away since she will be busy as well.

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    Default Re: Critique text game?

    If you're legitimately busy, then that's just a fact of life. People DO understand that. (Just don't ALWAYS make her wait for a raply)

    Never be afraid of flirting to much.
    An ALPHA male never questions his intentions... but WILL apologize if he goes too far.

    Be confident. Do it with meaning.

    A girl will forgive you for being a man & occasionally going too far.... but she won't forgive you for being a P*SSY.

    And guys who don't flirt, get stuck in the friend zone.

    Just remember: if she's replying with enthusiasm, she's interested & she's waiting for YOU to take charge & make a move.



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    Default Re: Critique text game?

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    Too many guys are afraid of getting into "Rapid Fire Reply" mode, thinking it'll make them look needy.
    i agree with this to an extent, if the convos flowing then it's cool, but if it's a bit stale distance the replies or make them at random times
    Yeah that is what i am aiming for at the moment, I am still a rookie texter/pua so I am taking it one step at a time.
    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    If you're legitimately busy, then that's just a fact of life. People DO understand that. (Just don't ALWAYS make her wait for a raply)

    Never be afraid of flirting to much.
    An ALPHA male never questions his intentions... but WILL apologize if he goes too far.

    Be confident. Do it with meaning.

    A girl will forgive you for being a man & occasionally going too far.... but she won't forgive you for being a P*SSY.

    And guys who don't flirt, get stuck in the friend zone.

    Just remember: if she's replying with enthusiasm, she's interested & she's waiting for YOU to take charge & make a move.

    Yeah, i'll definitely go into RFR mode if she replies with enthusiasm in the future, though I also am gonna take it slow. There's a lot to do in town in December so there are tons of things i can take her to do and hangout just to get familiar but also flirt a bit and not get put in the Friend Zone.

    I was thinking of taking her mini-golfing (relaxed, fun, great way to get a bit physical and flirty, and something that she probably hasn't done in a long time).

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    Default Re: Critique text game?

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    Too many guys are afraid of getting into "Rapid Fire Reply" mode, thinking it'll make them look needy.
    i agree with this to an extent, if the convos flowing then it's cool, but if it's a bit stale distance the replies or make them at random times

    Definitely!
    A guy should know when to keep up the rapid interaction.

    If it's fun & you feel the energy, then go with it.
    But.. if it feels like a chore, then let it trail off......




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