So I'm about to have date one at my house which is in shambles right now, dirty and needs cleaning. And I have this mexican chick who is 20 who lives at home across town and shares a vehicle with her family. Upon bragging that she has a new car, it becomes obvious that it's the new family car in which she helps pay for, but seems to flake in the sense that now she needs me to come pick her up. She lives 20 mins away and now asked me to pick her up and drop her off.
So what did I do? I was quite hesitant at first, as I told myself that I would be needy if I just complied and did it. So I told her if I have to pick her up and drop her off, she needs to help me clean and cook dinner for me. She's a long time friend, but since I showed interest, it was on. The original plan was to have her come over, I cook and we watch movies. But this going to pick her up and drop her off is rather beta (maybe I'm wrong), just to get some action from her. The thing is, I don't want to send the wrong information to my inner self. I've been on a roll with my confidence, but I feel that picking her up, cooking for her, dropping her off is going a bit too far for a piece of action. To those experienced, is this the right Mindset, or am I doing it wrong?