Hey everyone, it's my first post ! I'm very happy to join the forum.
So let me start by the beginning : I live on my university residence and I met a girl last week at the cafeteria: alot of eye contacts ! Tons of laughs and we talked for a good hour ! She was definetly attracted. Important details to help you understand what's coming below :
-she approached me by saying "are you ok ?! I saw you in ambulance !"
and i answerd " yes i'm fine ahahah it wasn't me" and we talked about it for a good 15 min she was really thhinking it was me.
- i want her really bad ... but not sexually... It's really weird
-she's a dancer
-she's going home on weekends (another town)
-I was eating a salmon sandwich
She told me that she would maybe drink in her room the same night to celebrate the end of midterms
i asked her number and said "maybe we can celebrate together".
She gave me her cellphone to put my name & number.
I've found this forum after i sent her the first text, and i messed up : 3 hours after the caf i texted her "hey it's 'name' "
Her: Yes i know
Me: woops i totally forgot I've put my phone nmbr in your cellphone
Her : haha it's ok
Me : so what are you doing tonight did you start partying already ?
Her : Yeaaaaaa (20min later)
Me: so what's your room number i might have something for you- it was a really nice bottle i had
Her: didn't answer
-------------------------- before discovering PUA Forums
3 Days later
Her: yo watsup
Me: how was your weekend
Her: good hbu
Me: good just came back from home
Her: nice i came back few hours ago
Me: sweet how was work, you dance a lil bit - she's a dancer
Her : yes yes it was good
Me: ahahha nice
Her : how was your weekend
Me : goood i had dinner with my family and i saw some friends
Her : that's good
Me: have class tomorrow - i was trying to meet her somewhere
Her: yes 8:10
Me: how was thursday ?! - the night she drank
Her : it was fine lol
Me: sweet at least your done for the midterms - 1 hour later, i was really busy
Her : yes this true
------------------------------------Before PUA forums
------------------everything under is after discovering PUA Forums
2 days layer :
Me: OMG what happened ?!
Her: what ?
Me: i dont know u tell me !? Are u ok ?
Her : why
Me: you were like .... But are you ok ?
Her : i'm fine but why do you ask
Me : i saw you in an ambulance ... Waaaaait it wasnt you ?
Her : ... Ugh -.-
Me: so it wasnt you .. Well you scared the s**t out of me ... Could you imagine residence without his croatian dancer
Her: i know that would be a problem
Me : a problem pfff half the res would go on strike .. Screeming " give us back our favourite croatian resident"
Her: lmaooooo that made me giggle
Me : hahaha
Me: you know it's true
Me: so what kind of trouble are you causing right now ?
Me : goin to the gym i'll catch you later - 30min later
Her: sorry phone was on silent. Have fun ! - immidiatly after
Fire alarms goes off in the residence later the same night :
Me: OMG what have you done ?!
Her : lmao sorry !!!!
Me: ahhaha where are you right now ? Watching the residence burn - she didnt answerthe question
Her : yes hahahaha !
The day after i saw her in the cafeteria and we were wearing the same thing :
Me : why are you copying my swag -_-
her : i'm sorry i'm using u as an isparation
Me : ahahhahah hope so
Me: you know whats funny Everytime ur in the caf i'm eating the same salmon sandwich.... Must be a sign ---- i realized that was the worst thing i ever wrote,I wad about to kill myself xD
Her: hahaha interestiiiing
And that was yesterday.
She's leaving every weekend and winter break is starting in 2 weeks i definetly need some help guys !?
Next time i text her i want to ask her out . I really don't know how,Any suggestion ?
Should I text her during the weekend even if she's not going to be in town ?
Am i texting too much?
*english is not my mother tongue*