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    Netforceone is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Red face Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    Hey everyone, it's my first post ! I'm very happy to join the forum.

    So let me start by the beginning : I live on my university residence and I met a girl last week at the cafeteria: alot of eye contacts ! Tons of laughs and we talked for a good hour ! She was definetly attracted. Important details to help you understand what's coming below :
    -she approached me by saying "are you ok ?! I saw you in ambulance !"
    and i answerd " yes i'm fine ahahah it wasn't me" and we talked about it for a good 15 min she was really thhinking it was me.
    - i want her really bad ... but not sexually... It's really weird
    -she's croatian
    -she's a dancer
    -she's going home on weekends (another town)
    -I was eating a salmon sandwich
    She told me that she would maybe drink in her room the same night to celebrate the end of midterms
    i asked her number and said "maybe we can celebrate together".
    She gave me her cellphone to put my name & number.

    Day 1
    I've found this forum after i sent her the first text, and i messed up : 3 hours after the caf i texted her "hey it's 'name' "
    Her: Yes i know
    Me: woops i totally forgot I've put my phone nmbr in your cellphone
    Her : haha it's ok
    Me : so what are you doing tonight did you start partying already ?
    Her : Yeaaaaaa (20min later)
    Me: so what's your room number i might have something for you- it was a really nice bottle i had
    Her: didn't answer
    -------------------------- before discovering PUA Forums
    3 Days later
    Me: Hey
    Her: yo watsup
    Me: how was your weekend
    Her: good hbu
    Me: good just came back from home
    Her: nice i came back few hours ago
    Me: sweet how was work, you dance a lil bit - she's a dancer
    Her : yes yes it was good
    Me: ahahha nice
    Her : how was your weekend
    Me : goood i had dinner with my family and i saw some friends
    Her : that's good
    Me: have class tomorrow - i was trying to meet her somewhere
    Her: yes 8:10
    Me: omg
    Me: how was thursday ?! - the night she drank
    Her : it was fine lol
    Me: sweet at least your done for the midterms - 1 hour later, i was really busy
    Her : yes this true
    ------------------------------------Before PUA forums
    ------------------everything under is after discovering PUA Forums
    2 days layer :
    Me: OMG what happened ?!
    Her: what ?
    Me: i dont know u tell me !? Are u ok ?
    Her : why
    Me: you were like .... But are you ok ?
    Her : i'm fine but why do you ask
    Me : i saw you in an ambulance ... Waaaaait it wasnt you ?
    Her : ... Ugh -.-
    Me: so it wasnt you .. Well you scared the s**t out of me ... Could you imagine residence without his croatian dancer
    Her: i know that would be a problem
    Me : a problem pfff half the res would go on strike .. Screeming " give us back our favourite croatian resident"
    Her: lmaooooo that made me giggle
    Me : hahaha
    Me: you know it's true
    Me: so what kind of trouble are you causing right now ?
    Me : goin to the gym i'll catch you later - 30min later
    Her: sorry phone was on silent. Have fun ! - immidiatly after
    ---------------------------
    Fire alarms goes off in the residence later the same night :
    Me: OMG what have you done ?!
    Her : lmao sorry !!!!
    Me: ahhaha where are you right now ? Watching the residence burn - she didnt answerthe question
    Her : yes hahahaha !
    ---------------------
    The day after i saw her in the cafeteria and we were wearing the same thing :
    Me : why are you copying my swag -_-
    her : i'm sorry i'm using u as an isparation
    Me : ahahhahah hope so
    Me: you know whats funny Everytime ur in the caf i'm eating the same salmon sandwich.... Must be a sign ---- i realized that was the worst thing i ever wrote,I wad about to kill myself xD
    Her: hahaha interestiiiing
    ---------------------
    And that was yesterday.
    She's leaving every weekend and winter break is starting in 2 weeks i definetly need some help guys !?
    Next time i text her i want to ask her out . I really don't know how,Any suggestion ?
    Should I text her during the weekend even if she's not going to be in town ?
    Am i texting too much?

    *english is not my mother tongue*

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    Default Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    Anyone ? i know you guys can help me !

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    Default Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    first of all, welcome to the forums, you should probably do an introductory thread in the beginners section

    - i want her really bad ... but not sexually... It's really weird

    figure out what you want about her, just friends?, friends w b, gf?

    She gave me her cellphone to put my name & number.
    nice

    Me: so what's your room number i might have something for you- it was a really nice bottle i had

    Her: didn't answer

    she didn't answer or she wrote didnt answer? if its the first *didnt answer* is sufficient next time (y) also it's like you're trying to lure her into you're room because you have a bottle, realllly?

    Me: have class tomorrow
    try and use sentences or statements eg when's your class tomorrow

    Her: lmaooooo that made me giggle
    Me : hahaha
    Me: you know it's true
    Me: so what kind of trouble are you causing right now ?
    Me : goin to the gym i'll catch you later - 30min later


    4 texts? really?

    Me: ahhaha where are you right now ? Watching the residence burn - she didnt answerthe question
    sounds stalker i wouldn't either

    Me: you know whats funny Everytime ur in the caf i'm eating the same salmon sandwich.... Must be a sign ---- i realized that was the worst thing i ever wrote,I wad about to kill myself xD
    correct

    you're not texting too much but your game is poor, you need to read TMals texting guide and alot of other texting guides out there, you always ask the most general questions that everyone hears on a daily basis, given that you are new (it applies to everyone else who doesnt have texting game down pat) seriously if you have to think about writing an ace text for four hours then do it, figure out how to make yourself not look like a dimwit and then say 3 hours max, all the way down to as soon as you see the text, you have your reply, it'll help in IRL convos too, just the quick thinking aspect, which in turn goes hand in hand with frame control (credit RB for making me realise this)

    with that being said be unpredictable with your texts, no instants, or if you do space out your next ones

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    Default Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    What the guy above me said.You're coming off as very obvious and needy.Read some of the guides.

    Most Important :

    Don't send a few messages in a row,this makes you look needy as hell,especially the 4 messages in a row.Put yourself in her shoes,what would you think ?

    Don't annoy her too much,give her a chance to text you,even if it means not texting her for a few days.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    Don't send a few messages in a row,this makes you look needy as hell,especially the 4 messages in a row.Put yourself in her shoes,what would you think ?
    it's true, but there's a fine line, and i way i've figured to counter the needyness is if the first message is a bit dull, and then the second text higher energy - you probably think high energy it's a text? right, as in high energy more descriptive of something being awesome

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    Cool Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    My name is velvet foster and I am now banned for being a spammer.

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    Cool Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    Quote Originally Posted by LOVER'S GUIDE View Post

    My name is velvet foster and I am now banned.
    Lol okay? :P plus thirty characters

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    Default Re: Need Help with a girl (getting emotional)! ASAP

    i think u did good on ur texting. don't worry abt how often u contact her, just 1) it must come with high energy and 2) must not be too many -/- and sometime u need to let her engage too... else ur just becoming the entertaining monkey. it can be that she has a bf and ur there for laughs.

    ur humor is good... use humor to ask her out.

    example:
    ME: Stacy's Mom, has got it going on... Stacy, i think ur mom has got it going on, let's go out for some coffee

    and don't ask... state.

    GL


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