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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Quote Originally Posted by reasonmontague View Post
    In regards to sending the first text, I find myself alway the one to initate contact. It can be tiring but I feel its more affected, we are men... we are hunters. Even though girls like to chase, it wont come off needy if youre begging for a response. Right???

    With that being said...
    I just sent a girl Ive been seeing a text that read
    me: "Hey there cupcake! Hope you're having a good day
    Her: "Thanks! me too

    Now my question here is, where would I escalate the texts from here. I usually just call her when i want to set something up, its way more affective for me. But since I am at work and cant call naturally how could I escalate this into getting her to come over tonight?

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    Suggestions for the future: Don't text a girl with filler like "how was your day." Come up with something with a little wit and humor, or something that is going to hook her.

    I'd try to hook her with a text at this point. Try something like, "I was just thinking about you, and I had the craziest thought..."

    Wait for her reply and then give a little Push-Pull, like "You have the most amazing blue eyes, but we could never work out."

    Using these kind of hooks work good, especially when you fucked up the first text.

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    That sounds great!

    Real quick, what if I already been seeing this girl, and we've already had some great sex. Does it really matter, what I say at this point?? I mean I like this girl, so at the moment I'd like to keep her on the hook for a while.

    With that being said, what does the "we'd never work out"? You know what am I effectively saying there?

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Quote Originally Posted by reasonmontague View Post
    That sounds great!

    Real quick, what if I already been seeing this girl, and we've already had some great sex. Does it really matter, what I say at this point?? I mean I like this girl, so at the moment I'd like to keep her on the hook for a while.

    With that being said, what does the "we'd never work out"? You know what am I effectively saying there?
    Sorry for not being clear. I was just saying that you should use some Push-Pull. One example would be this:

    You: "You have beautiful blue eyes, but we'd never work out..."
    Her: "Why's that?"
    You: "You're hair is a quarter inch longer than I can work with "

    But if you've already slept with her, then I wouldn't use something like "we would never work out." Basically, just compliment her and then take it back.

    Also, even though you know her and you've already slept with her, you should still keep your texts exciting. "How's your day going?" is always lame and should never be used.

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Ok... so how would you compliment her and then take it back without looking like a jackass??

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Quote Originally Posted by reasonmontague View Post
    Ok... so how would you compliment her and then take it back without looking like a jackass??
    Looking like an ass isn't necessarily a bad thing. The key is that after you compliment her and you go to tease her you want to tease her about something trivial. Something that she will realize doesn't really matter. You can use "lol" or a smiley face to soften the blow as well. For example:

    "You have a great smile, too bad I'm a sexy pout kind of guy. lol"

    Just have fun with it. I don't know anything about this girl, so I can really tailor anything to her. But the point is you don't want to give praise without qualifying the praise. It's the basic concept of Push-Pull. You don't have to insult her, but for every step forward, take a half (or even a full) step back.


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