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    Default I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    ..... of the day.

    That's right; I initiate contact every day, first thing in the morning. Why? Because it's tradition with me & my Fiancee.

    She mentioned to me during the first week of our relationship, how much she enjoyed getting a "good morning" text from me.
    So, I recognized that as a cue & now it's a traditional daily occurrence.

    Some guys worry too much about always initiating contact. But the thing is, if you pay attention to a girl & her reactions, you can pick up little clues about what she likes or dislikes.

    Now, I want to point out that I don't simply text her "good morning!"
    There's nothing fun & interesting about that. So, in order to affect a girl so that she can't wait to get your next text, you have to affect her emotionally.

    You need to be creative & think about what you can say that will bring a smile to her face. Because, when she starts EVERY day with that happy, good mood; it's going to be beneficial to YOU later on.

    Here are examples of "good morning" texts I've sent her. (I've shared a couple of these elsewhere on the forums, but since they directly pertain to this subject, I'll share them again.)

    "Aloha little princess! Your grass skirt & coconut bra had quite an effect on me... Even if it WAS just a dream. "

    "Cock-a-doodle-doooo!! Rise & shine little camper, it's a gorgeous morning. Can't wait to see your smiling face."

    "Did I see you on the news this morning? That was a horrible mug-shot! heehee!"

    "Hey Chowder-head, I saw you peeking in my window last night... The Pirate costume didn't fool me! "

    "Good morning little cuddle bug, you were the 1st thought in my mind when I woke up. Thank you for making me smile!"


    So, if you want to increase your chances of getting a girl to respond consistently, don't be afraid to initiate contact.
    And if you do it with a "good morning text" similar to the examples / styles above; you'll make her smile, AND she'll start looking forward to getting your texts!

    If & when that happens?.... you've got her hooked!

    Anyway, I have to wrap this up. (I need to initiate contact & send today's first text to my sweetie!!)

    -Peace out!



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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    well with a fiancee... But if you just met the girl? Wont it sound like neediness or a bit creepy?

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Personally I find that I can create shit loads of attraction in a club or bar or whatever, she'll even end up offering her number or asking for mine but........I nearly always initiate contact I don't know whether it's just an ingrained thing with British girls that a guy should text you first, but it's rare that she will text if you don't. Personally I think it's cus she's worried that she'll come across as too keen if she texts first. I think this because most the time I send the first text and get a response back almost immediately, as if she's been waiting for me to text her Iv never had any negative effects from doing this, even tho a lot of PUAs say you shouldn't. Just the way I roll

    Linking x

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Quote Originally Posted by bmr_id View Post
    well with a fiancee... But if you just met the girl? Wont it sound like neediness or a bit creepy?
    Actually, it was just a few days after we met, that she said she liked the "good morning text" I'd sent her.

    So, No. It didn't come off as needy or creepy.
    However; if I would have just texted her something like:

    "Good morning. did you sleep OK last night?" Or... "Good morning! How are you today?"
    Then yeah, that probably WOULD come across that way.

    But when you do it in a fun & creative way, it's going to have a more positive effect.



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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Hmm... But I think it's quite a difficult task to think of 365 different sentences if you do it daily o.o
    Any tips on that?

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    @AhHao Everytime you go out with her be observant and have material to last for at least 1 - 2 weeks, reuse somethings, be creative =/ it's a text you have hours and hours to think of something.

    And I don't fully agree with the OP. Can't always give a girl what she likes.

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    What do you mean by materials and OP?
    I'm new to this field, so I don't really know much terminology.
    Except that I know for now I'm an AFC lol

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    Quote Originally Posted by ahHAO View Post
    What do you mean by materials and OP?
    I'm new to this field, so I don't really know much terminology.
    Except that I know for now I'm an AFC lol
    OP = Original Post/Original Poster. So it's the first message in a topic/the guy who wrote it. It's a worldwide term on any forum.

    Material = Openers, routines (things you often say/do to achieve a certain goal such with a woman as creating attraction or number closing), etc.

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    I see, I have some questions regarding relationship though but not quite sure where to start :/

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS send the first text.....

    In regards to sending the first text, I find myself alway the one to initate contact. It can be tiring but I feel its more affected, we are men... we are hunters. Even though girls like to chase, it wont come off needy if youre begging for a response. Right???

    With that being said...
    I just sent a girl Ive been seeing a text that read
    me: "Hey there cupcake! Hope you're having a good day
    Her: "Thanks! me too

    Now my question here is, where would I escalate the texts from here. I usually just call her when i want to set something up, its way more affective for me. But since I am at work and cant call naturally how could I escalate this into getting her to come over tonight?

    Any suggestion


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