What's up guys, new guy here in need of some serious help (and when I mean serious I mean never been in a relationship and VERY minimal female interaction IRL). I've been doing the online dating thing for about a month. I'm basically looking for a relationship just to see what it's all about. My profile, I like it. I got a good laugh out of it and at the same time it really shows who I am. Out of the 20 messages I've sent, I got about 3-4 replied. Those that replied didn't really meet my expectations aka really boring. Well, I came across this one girls profile. Really cute and is into the same stuff I am. Alright that's cool, so I message her and she actually replied (totally unexpected). Things are going alright but it's hard to tell. You guys be the judge.
(She's into pc gaming, EDM and is a student in animation)
SplashyWhale: No farking way. 3D Animation? I went to school for that too.
If so, we might just become friends.
Also, Monstercat. You've heard of them right? They are killing the EDM scene right now.
PC MASTER RACE
Her: not 3D animation, just 2D atm. And yeppp i've heard of them, I listen to aloooooot of edm, always looking for new stuff.
AND YOU GOT IT BRO
SplashyWhale: Ahh, I see. I'm a hard dance/hardstyle kinda guy (although it seems like a dying breed ;_. That sh1t gets me on the dance floor. Any particular sub-genre you enjoy?
And I never played TF2 (I know, farkin baddie), is it any good? I heard there's hats. I like hats.
Her: Yeah I'm more into drum&bass and electro stuff, but I like really grimey music or alot of liquid dnb/dubstep. Abd yeah tf2 is fun i've just been playing it for so long now, it's still the only game i can continuously go back to... just start up a game destroy some people, have my fun and be on my way
I've read Vecen's guide to online dating but I don't feel like this chick would respond well to teasing IMO. So I got a couple questions.
1. Does she seem not into it or is that my lack of confidence talking?
2. How do I continue? I may have put myself into the friendzone by saying "We might just become friends" in the first message.
3. You guys think I could recover from it?
4. Her profile says 'looking for friends'. Do girls put this to push creeps away or are they legitimately looking for friends?
Honestly, any help with this would be appreciated. The last message I got from her was earlier today. Haven't responded back. Waiting on some feedback.
Also, I didn't where to post this. I am new but it's relevant to online dating... err..