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    Smile n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    So after closing the number, i texted the girl an hour or so later just to let her know my name, wasnt sure if she knew it or not because i never gave it to her. So i got the number on a tuesday, didnt text her again until thursday, had small conversation, made her laugh, got her attention etc. here is where things may have gone wrong, i am not sure because she did say we should meet up.

    ME: Come meet me for a drink later when im off work
    HER: MMM yeah, im 19, so that may be problematic for us
    ME: 19 huh, quit posing as a 22 year old haha. you do seem nice enough though, i could budge on drinks and do coffee
    HER: I wishh i looked younger haha. Andd you dontt have to you know. Seriously I will take no offense. Esp if its weird forr you sinc eyour bother is kinda the same age. How oldd are you?
    ME: I know i don't have to, I want to see if your second impression is as good as your first Im 22. what do you say? ( probably should have left that last part out, kind of puts her in control now that i think about it)
    HER: Sorry im at workk. And okk thats fine with mee, as long as youre ok with it
    ME: Why dont you let me know when you are out, I have somethingt going on until 530 but ill be free after
    HER: Well tonight I get out at 9, then i have to pick up my cousin from her bfs house... thenn tomorrow night im going to a wineglass swap party.... im not trying to aboid seein you haha, im just busy (not sure if thats a good think mentioning not avoiding me. i feel like she really isnt, because if she was she would just not asnwer me)
    ME: I know i can gauge pretty when people are charmed by me except for sunday i dont think im free until wednesday
    HER: Hahaha ohh you think im charmed by you?
    ME: I just call it like i see it
    HER: Idd say youre the on charmed by me since youre the one who asked for my numberr. I just call it like I see it
    ME: you seemed like an interesting person, and i love meeting new people
    HER: Sorry its been busy heree. Ha im really not that ineresting, believe mee
    ME: Yeah i can tell, you really bored the hell out of me for the half hour we talked the other day haha :P


    And thats where it ended. She didnt respond to the last one, that was 2 days ago, im waiting, on the off chance she is still interested and that all the anticipation of me not texting her is killing her. Any thoughts? How should I move forward?

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    Ok im pretty new at all this myself but I can see a few things you did wrong.

    I know i don't have to, I want to see if your second impression is as good as your first Im 22. what do you say?

    Yea i agree you should of left the last part out. At least you know where you went wrong there. Remember ladies want you to take control, not ask for permission so to say. Also you gave an ioi by saying her first impression was good. She needs to earn IOI's from you.

    Why dont you let me know when you are out, I have something going on until 530 but ill be free after

    Again you gave her the control where you should of suggested another time and day.

    With regards to her saying she isn't trying to avoid you, that is a good thing. That says that she might want to see you again. And she isn't avoiding you. Those seem like legitimate things going on in her life. Not many people would go as far as to say they are attending a wineglass swap party, they would just say sorry im busy.

    Yeah i can tell, you really bored the hell out of me for the half hour we talked the other day haha :P

    That could of come off as a bit harsh from her perspective. Try keep negs/cocky funny for when you are face to face because you can use body language and facial expressions to show your not too serious. You cant do that in text game.

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    how would you recover? its been a few days since i talked to her last, should i initiate a new conversation. i thought the last part was an okay but i do see your point in it possibly being taken wrong. if i were to text her back, should i avoid the conversation and try and get straight to the meet up.

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    I agree with supremo except for the last point, cocky funny is fine over text as long as you are a bit more careful, and I don't think that was too harsh unless she is simple then the '' shows it is a joke.

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    And just re initiate as if she hadn't ignored you if ya get me. I'd just text on a day your free and go for the meet eg. '7:30 at (insert place) be there or be square '

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    is this salvageable, whats a good way to re open in text? i really think once i get her out to meet, i will be okay.

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    i guess in regards to going for the meet. should i wait a few days or go for tonight. i mentioned that im free tonight or wednesday in the conversation we had

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    If you are confident that once you get the meet up youll be ok then push for it.

    The reason I say the ending of your conversation could of come off harsh was because they dont see it from the point of view that we see it. Remember we read about all these things so we will se it instantly. Also I havent had much luck with Cock Funny over text so personally for me I keep it out of texting unless I am certain it is an absolute pearler

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    Yeah whenever you want to go for it mate, I personally just go for it when I have a night free lol :L and supremo....fair enough everyone has different styles, it's works wonders for me, I don't change anything from me in person to me over text lol, and tbh if a girl can't take a joke I'm not interested anyway each to there own

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    Default Re: n closed a girl but not sure how its going, could use some pointers.

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Yeah whenever you want to go for it mate, I personally just go for it when I have a night free lol :L and supremo....fair enough everyone has different styles, it's works wonders for me, I don't change anything from me in person to me over text lol, and tbh if a girl can't take a joke I'm not interested anyway each to there own

    Linking x
    Lol I agree if a girl can't take a joke then inm not interested either. Maybe I just don't have my text game locked down now. It's not that I'm a different person over phone compared to real life. I just use texting to set up a meet or a bit of Fluff talk.


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