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    mike.wow89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need Help Texing a girl

    Hello. I am talking a to a new girl over facebook chat. Basically the same as texting. We have good conversations and i'm starting to get some emotions out of her, but i have a few questions. It seems more often then not I initiate the text (send the first text). How can work on changing that? Also along with her showing emotions i feel like she might starting talking about her personal issues soon. According the pua world that is bad i think lol. How can I keep our emotions in our conversations without getting to much into her personal problems and ultimatley putting me in the "good guy" friend zone? Any help would be awesome. Thank you.

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    Default Re: Need Help Texing a girl

    my experience is throw some cliffhangers at her. being to tell her a story or 'omg the weirdest thins happened to me at...' and just dont finish it. if yall got rapport goin she usually will hit you up later sayin 'so what happened/ you didnt finish the story!'

    the emotions thing is tricky. i am a blatant asshole and they know it so i tells em i aint a pillow to cry on or they girlfriend. this only works if you established a frame as an a-hole.

    the other way is to support em but dont let it get too real. ex.-

    her-'omg this girl at work is so mean to me idk what to do'
    pua-'hey i know how you feel. my boss used to be huge dick to me but i had a sit down with him and we straightened it out. itll get better i promise '

    she'll say some sh1t like 'thanks ill try that/youre helpful' then just change the subject. 'on a lighter note, i saw a drunk chick passed out in garbage' or what have you.

    make sure you do NOT become her go to bitch buddy. that nonsense is hard to recover from.

    good luck with homegirl, mayne.

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    crobinson1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Help Texing a girl

    I wont lie. so many people freak out about not getting women to text them. One thing lots of guys need to understand is. CHILL THE HELL OUT. If she doesnt text you first, its ok. The thing that matters is getting her to text back and have fun. Once you have enough comfort, rapport and attraction she will text you first. But for now, sorry to say. Your the guy man up and send a fun text first. Whether its a cliff hanger or what have you.
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