ok so ive tested this out a few times. i will continue with testing tonight. here it is i have had great responses from girls when in the first message i call them a nickname. i called a girl dork butt and she called me sexy lips. ill tell the full story with that later lol i called a different girl sugar lips because she was acting like she was kissing in her picture. and a third girl just replied to it. so ill keep testing out but so far its going very well !