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Thread: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

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    Default Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    Just wanted to see if I handled this correctly, was texting a girl Iv met up with a few times, haven't f closed her simply because, timings were bad and she was having the monthly female problem............. .she was supposed to meet me out of work at about ten on Saturday night and I mentioned it in passing today. I'm skipping out the Fluff in he texts and just writing the bit about Saturday.

    Her: Saturday is turning out to be a problem, my flat mates are moaning cus I'm not going out with them and it's our last weekend (before Xmas break). It's so hard to please everyone

    ( she was originally meant to go with them but asked if she could see me instead cus she didn't wana go out)

    Me: we'll since your an 'independent' person (running joke between us) then I'm sure you can make your own decision and if you want to go out with them then that's your choice

    Her: I just don't want them to get pissed off with me about it that's all :/

    Me: ok ( changed convo topic)

    So what do u think.....right way to handle it? Or was I a bit harsh? Lol

    We are still talking and she's flirting like normal telling me that I'm getting a massage after Xmas break etc.
    Cheers guys

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    I don't see anything wrong with it
    If someone knows they are being chased they are in the drivers seat and will usually take advantage

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    Default Re: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    i think you handled it the best you possibly could over text, i would try to make the next time you talk to her be in person if at all possible so you can Kino her a little. bring up the sexual Tension again.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    no that was great cuz u didn't care about her not coming, u didn't break the frame.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    Ok cool, cheers guys, Iv been trying to make sure my frame control is good even by texting, seems to be helping a lot, and dalton I kinda can't only talk to her in person now as she's going home for 4 weeks for Xmas, I'm not going to talk to her much in that time tho

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    haha i wasnt worried. you know whats up.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Not sure if I handled it right, anything else I could have done?

    As mentioned above, you kept cool and didn't turn AFC. She is still offering a massage after xmas...that means sex. LOL


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