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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    Quote Originally Posted by big_irish View Post
    you played that off beautifully. showed her you are not a man that gets kept waiting. and if she brings it up, i would say 'don't let it happen again' or don't even acknowledge it like you're still pissed. drives em nutz.also the head comment was on point. 5 internets for you.
    Do not react to anything a woman does if you can help it. That just shows she has power over you. Think about. If she knows being a few minutes late is going to piss you off, she can use that to piss you off whenever she wants. Now why would you give her that power? You're in control, and nothing she does is going to do is ever going to make you give up that control.
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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    Easy man. There's a difference between teasing them and being a d1ck. That's being a d1ck. Don't be a d1ck. Cause eventually you're going to run into a chick who's going to call you out when you blow sh1t out of proportion, and you'll look like (drumroll, please) a d1ck.
    whats wrong with that? nothing wrong with telling a chick you don't approve of their bullshit.

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    There is nothing wrong with that. But if you think her being 15 minutes late is bullshit, you and I have some very different opinions on what should and shouldn't be tolerated. Stand strong, but don't overact.
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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    it always starts as something irrelevant like being a little late, but it becomes more frequent and you become a doormat. i let them know in the beginning they gotta behave themselves if they get to be around me.

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    Not if you know your standards. If a man has standards this becomes a non-issue. He knows what he will and will not allow. If he doesn't then he either lets people walk all over or he overcompensates and freaks out about petty shit.

    I am an alpha male. If you step out of line or cross me, I will bite you without hesitation. But I've got better things to do than to deal with you every time you trip yourself up or do something stupid (read: being late).

    If I can piss you off by being a few minutes late, I will do it in a heartbeat. Why? Because I can. You've given me that power, and I'd be stupid not to use it. And if you stand up for yourself and try and let me know that you won't take any of my shit, I will blow you off like yesterday's dirt. If that just pisses you off more, then by all means, get pissed. And I'll continue not to give a single, solitary fuck. The more mad you get, the better I look, cause I control you now.

    I know this cause I've done it before. It's almost a game to me at this point. The last time was with a rugby player 4 inches shorter than me but twice as thick. I was dancing with my ex, who he was now seeing, and he tried to claim his territory. So when the song was over I went over to sip my beer and get my friends dancing. Rugby sit's down on the other side of the table, pulls my ex onto his lap and basically says "this is mine now". I don't even look at him, I just take another sip and check my phone. He practically yells at me this next time, and I look over at him, straight faced, as if I'm just now noticing her on his lap. I look him up and down, smirk, and go back to my phone. "Whatever you say, champ." A few minutes later I see him in the corner of the club while my ex tries to calm him down, his fists clenched, staring daggers at me. Everyone in the club can tell he wants to fight. I just smile and nod at him, the way you nod at a friend on the street, and went back to chatting with the friend he'd brought with him. No fear. No reaction. No hesitation. Not giving a fuck about the fact that if it came to a fight, he'd probably win (though I'd give as good as I got) But it didn't come to a fight. He didn't talk to me. He didn't even come near me for the rest of the night. He ended up leaving early. He doubted himself and I didn't.

    I'm not telling you this to prove I'm a badass. I'm telling you this because you aren't getting the point. You're not trying to prove to a girl that you're more alpha than she is. She's not your competition. Your competition is me, and every other alpha male out there. You have to prove that you're the alpha male. There can only be one in any situation, and that's who get's his choice of the girls. If you want that to be you, you have to be strong, you have to be untouchable, and if you show even a hint of weakness you are going to get torn a new one. Cause that's what I'd do.
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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    Setting standards with or without reacting emotionally

    Just pointing out what we are ACTUALLY debating here.
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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    Im with bandit. Calling out bad behavior is one thing but getting worked up easily is not something u want to do regularly. Just remain cool and make fun of her for it. She will get the message.

    And i also agree that u should not take sex when they offer. Thats always a good strategy.
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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    Ok so to summarize, we are debating the two different styles:

    1 - Take advantage of little small things, like them being late to get them to do extra points. You make a big deal of little things, but if you maintain a controlling frame, you're "training" them to follow by your rules and showing that certain types of behaviour is not acceptable.

    2 - Be chill as fuck and don't let anything effect you. Be that cool alpha guy who is laid back and nothing can effect them. Are they friends fighting over something, just be like whatever and don't let anything effect you. The fact that you are untouchable and just so confident in what you do is very, very attractive.

    I want to say that I've used both of these styles and they both work, it isn't one or another. If you're weak in either style then it will fuck up, but if you're solid then you can be fine.

    by the way, we're talking here about how to deal with things like girls being late, not the fact that you should be late.

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    Default Re: Turning THEM down for sex

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    I'm telling you this because you aren't getting the point.
    thing is i do get it. my marriage was not reacting to the bullsh1t my ex put me through, and she would push further and further each time until i put my damn foot down and showed her who was boss. depending on what kind of woman you're dealing with your approach could work beautifully, or crash and burn. everyone on these forums who gives advice is basing it off of what works for them. just cause we have different ways of approaching this doesn't mean i don't get it. means my way has been killer for me and if your way works for you, that's awesome. great thing about game is there isn't one way to do it.

    i am chill as a motherfarker until a chick crosses the line. if i want her to be on time, i need to let her know she better be there on time. it's great to be unaffected by her actions but sometimes you gotta give her a foot in the ass. like PurpleM said, best thing you can do is be proficient in both ways.

    and if she does it a second time, blows me off, or tries to get my blood boiling in any way, she gets the boot. no real man has got time for a sh1te person like that.


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