Ok, so I have been working on this shy 7 recently. My text game has been going horrible with her. If I say something random and just playful she usually texts back in decent time and positive response. However anything that is teasing, negs, etc... seems to produce negative results. In person it seems fine and she flirts back and shows IOIs.
I finally got frustrated so I met her in person and said something along the line how I would like to get to know her looks aren't everything yada yada... She ended up telling me she finds me intimidating. This kinda confused me because I thought she was blowing me off via txt. However, I she flooded me with IoIs that night and I k-closed her.
To cut to the chase my question is: Is it common for a girl who finds you intimidating to be too scared to send you the first text, or to not respond to teasing and negs? Are there methods of deal with this type of thing? Or am I just missing comfort?