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    Default Long Term Online Game and Opening Example

    Hey guys,

    I travel a lot around the middle east with the military right now but will be moving to NYC next year. With the help of lurking this forum I started an OkCupid profile to try to get some irons in the fire before i arrive. I've done a decent job of getting a few girls to the point where i'm pretty sure an in person meetup would be a sure thing if I were living there already, but my problem is that I wont be there for another 4 months.

    Any advice on the gameplan to keep these girls on deck until I get to NYC? I'm worried that if I keep talking, sending longer and longer emails, etc. that I run the risk of entering the friendzone. Anyway, my profile is here in case you care, any tips would be welcome:

    (oops, error told me I couldn't hyperlink out until i post more. My user name is LibertyRisk on OkCupid if you care enough to check it out):

    And here is an example of a convo that I basically went textbook from this forum as much as possible. I've got 4 or 5 other girls at about the same point just 48 hours after signing up thanks to this forum. I've messaged about 80 girls total for that result (about 20 have replied but not all have led to this much interaction):

    Me: You look totally bat-sh1t crazy. Must be the wild eyes. Very cute and feminine. Weirdo.

    HB7: what

    HB7: I respect you for using bat-sh1t crazy and cute and feminine in the same message. Is this like an insult me/build me back up thing? It's kind of working.

    Me: if you think being bat-sh1t crazy is an insult I suppose it's less likely you're a crazy internet stalker that will end up hiding in my bushes if i keep talking to you, so that's a plus. A little crazy can be a good thing though.

    HB7: Hahaha I can't get over your first message. It's the best I've gotten on here. I love the send off "weirdo".

    Hahaha. Ahhh no I'm not a crazy Internet stalker. I'm pretty freaking normal actually lol.

    Me: if that's the best there must be some pretty boring dudes out there. if you still have it saved i'd be curious to see your worst.

    weirdo

    HB7: Haha ohhh man. I save all the worst ones. Too many I wouldn't know which to pick. One of my favorites is the essay I got from this guy about how his girlfriends dump him because his d1ck is too big and how he just wants to be honest with me about it up front. Send off "ps great eyes. Very intense".

    Haha I don't have intense eyes... No one in real life has ever told me that.

    Me: hilarious. and lucky you picked that one. Most of my girlfriends dump me because i'm ridiculously good in bed. It's all they can ever think about and it ends up being so distracting it ruins the rest of their lives. Now I know not to write you an essay about that. i never expected my first stab at online dating to go this well.

    HB7: Explain why i seem bat sh1t crazy. Ya know.. For informational purposes

    Me: Haven't even met yet and you're giving me orders eh? Somehow I knew you were going to be a handful.

    HB7: hahahahaha I like you

    HB7: PS I'm not really a handful. I'm actually very sweet. I promise

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    It goes on from there. Still have a good vibe etc. but i'm wondering where to take it so that I maximize the chance of getting with this girl (and similar other interactions) 4 months from now.

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    Default Re: Long Term Online Game and Opening Example

    This is great, might use some of this. I like how at the end you didn't fall for it and said she was giving you orders. So much better and easier than trying work something out in her frame. Awesome!

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    Default Re: Long Term Online Game and Opening Example

    Quote Originally Posted by Sal_Paradise1439 View Post
    This is great, might use some of this. I like how at the end you didn't fall for it and said she was giving you orders. So much better and easier than trying work something out in her frame. Awesome!
    Yeah, that I owe totally to this site. I would have never handled it that smoothly if I hadn't been reading these posts. Re-framing through teasing is such a useful technique. It gets you out of having to think and girls really seem to like it. The advice on these forums is gold.

    As an aside, I've been experimenting with openings. This one cracked me up but has a 0% response rate so far (about 20 girls). This has the worst results of any I've tried so it's an example of what NOT to do I suppose:

    Me: hello [target name]! i am datebot. not many people have read [random favorite book]. it's a nice surprise to see somebody on here that loves it too. You have an interesting look about you. crazy but kindof feminine [random facial feature]. i can't believe you like [random favorite activity]. i like it too but it doesn't seem like you would given the rest of your profile, how did you get into it?

    HB: (not one response yet)

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    Haha yeah, probably not going to get much response for you. Maybe it would work if it was like one sentence and more funny/obviously making fun of itself.

    But I was thinking about your problem. I don't have any direct experience with something like this so take my thoughts with a grain of salt.

    I would think it would be best to email them like every couple weeks or every month with something fun and interesting. Messaging more than that for months on end without having met would probably put too much pressure on the initial meeting. And then you might meet her and decide you don't really like her.

    Of course tell them you're in the military and you wont be home for a while. Some might drop off so you might have to find some new ones as you get closer to coming home. But some might still be single. But having too much success too soon is an excellent problem to have!

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    Default Re: Long Term Online Game and Opening Example

    To break this down..

    They key reason this works so well is that you maintain control of the frame. The bit about giving orders is top draw!

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    Default Re: Long Term Online Game and Opening Example

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    To break this down..

    They key reason this works so well is that you maintain control of the frame. The bit about giving orders is top draw!
    Yeah, it's my go to now for shit tests where she's telling you to do something. I was a bit worried that she'd insist on an answer a message or two later, but we've kept talking and it's never come up. She doesn't seem to care about the answer at all, just that I passed the shit test. Definitely a useful lesson, but it's starting to make me think girls are stoopid.


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