So I only met this girl like 15 min drunk. I've texted her a couple times before this trying to meet up the next night then a few days later. Last I texted her a couple days ago.
Texting and maintaining interest is a real sticking point for me. I'm all about meetups but with people's work/school/friends and my and most of the girls that I like's aversion to planning I'd really like to get my texting game tight. To put it simply I'm trying to be more sexual, but in a subtler way, ease into things more, and pace her interest rather than pushing things. I guess subtlety and patience are the big focus points for me, as I tend to be blunt. Especially trying to see multiple girls, it'd be great if I could enjoy texting and get them to enjoy texting enough to keep them focused on me.
Here's our convo from today, all replies were within a few min. Let me know what I could do better:
Me: Well hello
Her: Hi there
Me: What are you up to?
Her: Oh just folding laundry watching Christmas vacation. How about you?
Me: Making some delicious burritos, getting ready to hit the gym, and trying to figure out what to do tonight.
Her: Sounds exciting
Me: Better than laundry we should do some sort of swap, I'll make food if you wash my underwear lol
Her: Haha isn't it a little too soon for me to be ironing your boxers?
Me: Wow you iron them? You're just trying to impress me now
Her: You caught me
Me: lol but yeah, we should get drinks before you think about my boxers too much
Her: Probably a good idea
Me: Dave and Busters, 7?
Her: Unfortunately I already have plans to go out Broadway tonight
Me: That is unfortunate. You should send me exciting pics...
Her: Hah oh I should, should I?
[at this point should I have used get your mind out of the gutter from the guide? I'm sure she took it that way, but I just feel like she'd just steal my out and be like "what? I thought you meant of the show. Apparently your mind is in the gutter." Which I guess would still be playful. I don't know]
Me: Just during the intermission and after. Maybe before.
Her: haha to bars on Broadway not Broadway Broadway
Me: Oh lol. I'll prob end up in LoDo, maybe if you send me action pics that make that.. Broadway look intriguing enough I could find myself over there
Her: I will definitely keep that in mind
Fin. Too available? Should I have teased her off it more? It's nice to have texts actually flow a bit. I thought I might be toasted when I first saw "sounds exciting." I prob should've realized she had plans when she didn't bite on "trying to figure out what to do tonight" huh? I guess I kind of did, but then the drink line I thought meant go.