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    Default Critique my text (girl I met at a bar briefly a few days back)

    So I only met this girl like 15 min drunk. I've texted her a couple times before this trying to meet up the next night then a few days later. Last I texted her a couple days ago.

    Texting and maintaining interest is a real sticking point for me. I'm all about meetups but with people's work/school/friends and my and most of the girls that I like's aversion to planning I'd really like to get my texting game tight. To put it simply I'm trying to be more sexual, but in a subtler way, ease into things more, and pace her interest rather than pushing things. I guess subtlety and patience are the big focus points for me, as I tend to be blunt. Especially trying to see multiple girls, it'd be great if I could enjoy texting and get them to enjoy texting enough to keep them focused on me.

    Here's our convo from today, all replies were within a few min. Let me know what I could do better:

    Me: Well hello

    Her: Hi there

    Me: What are you up to?

    Her: Oh just folding laundry watching Christmas vacation. How about you?

    Me: Making some delicious burritos, getting ready to hit the gym, and trying to figure out what to do tonight.

    Her: Sounds exciting

    Me: Better than laundry we should do some sort of swap, I'll make food if you wash my underwear lol

    Her: Haha isn't it a little too soon for me to be ironing your boxers?

    Me: Wow you iron them? You're just trying to impress me now

    Her: You caught me

    Me: lol but yeah, we should get drinks before you think about my boxers too much

    Her: Probably a good idea

    Me: Dave and Busters, 7?

    Her: Unfortunately I already have plans to go out Broadway tonight

    Me: That is unfortunate. You should send me exciting pics...

    Her: Hah oh I should, should I?

    [at this point should I have used get your mind out of the gutter from the guide? I'm sure she took it that way, but I just feel like she'd just steal my out and be like "what? I thought you meant of the show. Apparently your mind is in the gutter." Which I guess would still be playful. I don't know]

    Me: Just during the intermission and after. Maybe before.

    Her: haha to bars on Broadway not Broadway Broadway

    Me: Oh lol. I'll prob end up in LoDo, maybe if you send me action pics that make that.. Broadway look intriguing enough I could find myself over there

    Her: I will definitely keep that in mind

    Fin. Too available? Should I have teased her off it more? It's nice to have texts actually flow a bit. I thought I might be toasted when I first saw "sounds exciting." I prob should've realized she had plans when she didn't bite on "trying to figure out what to do tonight" huh? I guess I kind of did, but then the drink line I thought meant go.

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    Default Re: Critique my text (girl I met at a bar briefly a few days back)

    You started with an average question but yougave dhvs by telling your plans and she gave you an ioi by asking for pics. Needs more humor anyway. There are awesome text guides by top puas in the forum. Check them. I carrythem in my evernote

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    Default Re: Critique my text (girl I met at a bar briefly a few days back)

    Ps: didnt read till the end. I have very short time for pickup lately


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