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    Default Did I mess up...? Or...?

    So I met this girl yesterday at a study session, n-closed before we left and I made sure this girl was easy to talk to before I even bothered myself with trying to pursue her. After a rough break-up with my ex, I kinda was just looking for something easy to get into, if ya know what I mean. Lol

    Okay so I got her number and we texted and same day, only because she told me to text her with my name and that opened up into conversation.

    Here's how it went. Give me the goods and bads, and tell me what I could change and do better for next time since I'm still pursuing her.

    Me: (Insert Name in Here)

    Her: Such a white name, haha Got it! (possibly a neg or a sh~t test, I'm black)

    Me: Hey chill. I gotta get a job at some point! :P

    Her: You're not mixed tho, right?

    Me: Lol no way, Just Black. Where's your family from?

    Her: Where do I look like I'm from?

    I waited like 20 minutes...

    Me: Lol if I had to guess, I'd say you're Columbian lol.

    She stops texting me for the rest of the day and texts me first at 11 the next morning.

    Her: I've gotten that a couple times down here, but nope! I'm Mexican.

    Me: Lol Darn! I thought I really had ya pinned too. I need some tea about now. (changing the subject to get a little more on what she thinks of things. Field testing stuff)

    Her: Hot teaaaaaaa? or sweet tea?

    Me: Any teaaaaaa. Lol its great! Why? Do you have some? :P

    Her: No, just an empty tummy. Haha
    Tea is most definitely great!

    Me: Aw Damn. I just went to zaxbys with some friends. I didn't know you were hungry

    Her: Bigfatmeanie. Jkkk lol its cool.. I need to learn to cook! I've been eating out too much since I moved here.

    Me: Cooking is great but eating out is always great on a late night :P

    (Sexual innuendo. Yeah bold but I thought I might be a little rewarding. I was basically trying some Push-Pull through text. If she responded in a sexual way, I'd just tell her that she's being a pervert and that I didn't mean it that way in a light-hearted, fun way.)

    Anyway she hasn't texted back since. And as I'm writing this, it's only be 4 hours. So I dont particularly care about her texting back as much as I care about how the flow is going. How was that?

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    Default Re: Did I mess up...? Or...?

    No. You're doing fine. Cool? Cool.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Did I mess up...? Or...?

    Sweet, I'll keep you guys posted. Gonna try and keep it rolling.

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    Default Re: Did I mess up...? Or...?

    id say give it a day or two, and if she doesn't respond then you should response saying ''i didn't realize how dirty that sounded'' because she could have talking it personally and think its a little creepy, but yeah I'm saying she would respond after all its only been 4 or so hours. Good luck

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    Default Re: Did I mess up...? Or...?

    Thanks for the feedback. I'll take it to heart.

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    Default Re: Did I mess up...? Or...?

    Question:

    If anything a person says can be creepy, then how in the world are you supposed to escalate into sexual territory since doing so is said to be required to spice things up or get anything more than just friendship?

    I didn't even remotely notice anything sexual about that entire conversation until I read some of the comments then went back and reread the last text message a few times to see if I was missing anything.

    Therefore, I cannot understand how that could be creepy at all (and this is the reason I am strongly against text style communication).


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