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Thread: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

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    Default Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    Hey guys, urbabcowboy is getting back at you again with more knowledge bombs. Not gonna go nuclear in this post though since I'm on my way to school and need to study but I couldn't resist dropping in real quick. Two tips, let's go:

    First one: add this line to your profile...

    "If you're interested, send me a message. I'll take it from there." It works. Why? It's alpha as f@ck. You have to embody it thereafter though. Don't talk about it boys, be about it.

    Second, sign your msgs, at least the first few. Nothing fancy, just...
    "-(your first name)"
    Or use a fake first name (make sure to remember it though). I think it shows women you're serious and you don't hide behind your online avatar like a cheating husband or some high school kid on Xbox live. Further speculation can be had in the comments. I'll add more after my final today. Remember..., it's not lying, it's flirting.

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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    Just thought I'd add...

    1) Pictures

    you need at least 2 good face shots and 2 good body shots (with your shirt on! and not taken in the mirror!)

    You want to put pictures in that show you in a social setting with friends having fun or doing something active!

    you want to have some pictures with girls in but not too many. Don't seem like a player nut show that other woman like to be around you. No pictures of ex's... if you have done this slap yourself!

    I have pictures that I have drawn of celebrities in an pop-art style, these generate a lot of interest and girls often open me asking me to draw them. Now you can throw in anything, picture of you surfing, playing football, skiing. Something a little interesting.


    2) Your message

    ok first off "hi" "hello" and "heya" have no place in your first message, get rid of it. Start with "so" or their name or just dive straight in. saying hi is redundant and boring!

    Personalise it and read her damn profile! do not open with compliment unless it is about her profile or personality.

    Do not comment on her looks!

    Do not ask boring questions "how are you?" "Did you have a good weekend?" NO NO NO.

    So what do you say? read her profile and look for a hook to run off. e.g. girl mentions she hates Justin Beiber. "Shame you hate the Beibster, we could have had something special "



    Hope this helps

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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    Hey guys, urbabcowboy is getting back at you again with more knowledge bombs. Not gonna go nuclear in this post though since I'm on my way to school and need to study but I couldn't resist dropping in real quick. Two tips, let's go:

    First one: add this line to your profile, shamelessly stolen from the good gentlemen at thegoodlookingloser. com...

    "If you're interested, send me a msg. I'll take it from there." It works. Why? It's alpha as f@ck. You have to embody it thereafter though. Don't talk about it boys, be about it.

    Second, sign your msgs, at least the first few. Nothing fancy, just...
    "-(your first name)"
    Or use a fake first name (make sure to remember it though). I think it shows women you're serious and you don't hide behind your online avatar like a cheating husband or some high school kid on Xbox live. Further speculation can be had in the comments. I'll add more after my final today. Remember..., it's not lying, it's flirting.

    That's really close to what I did when I was owning the online dating world.

    But, instead of saying it like, "If you're interested, send me a message"...

    I put it like this:

    "I obviously can't read EVERY profile on this site... and I know there are some AMAZING women that I'll never meet, unless they lose the shyness routine and just send me an email of some sort....

    Now the ball is in your court. (What'cha gonna do with it?)
    "


    And DEFINITELY sign your name!!
    It makes it more personal & genuine, which DOES have an effect on lowering her defense shield.



    Great tips!!


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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    Great advice above

    Thanks T-Mal your profile tag line is fantastic

    A couple of other points i'd like to make

    1: Only message HBs when they are online, If you notice they have just logged in then wait 5 minutes (Gives them time to scroll through all the cr@p AFCs have sent them with "Hey bbz, lets chat" or "Your gorgeous, how are you")

    2: Only message HBs at night, I find you are much more likely to get an immediate response, its also when alot of the diamonds in the rough are online and at night is when HBs shields are mostly down

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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    @T-Mal, yeah, these are two tips that have helped me so much in getting replies. I wasn't doing well initially despite good photos, good profile and decent msgs (I use a copy and paste msg that has blanks to add something unique, kinda like a Mad Libs). I knew part of it was my age (22) and the fact that I wanted 30-45 but I didn't think that was it. So I started experimenting with radically different styles and took what worked best from each of them. I'm looking forward to typing up my first cougar LR lol.

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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    whats HBs? sorry for being a newb.

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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    Thanks... I BLOW at online game for some reason. You pointed out some obvious mistakes of mine here.

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Two Tips To Increase Response Rate To First Msg

    Just created a recon profile.

    Jesus Christ men cannot spell! and a good 90% of the messages are hi, how are you.

    my favourite thus far has been 'hi gorgus' ... he wrote two words, 50% of the message was spelt wrong...

    Its no wonder I do ok online considering this dismal competition.


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