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Thread: Paying for girl on the date?

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    Default Paying for girl on the date?

    Just a quick one, what's your opinion when it come to bills on the first date/Instant Date.
    What about if its a cup of coffee?

    Jake

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    Default Re: Paying for girl on the date?

    Do Not Pay!

    pay your share and make a point of splitting the bill. we live in the 21st century it is not our ob to pay for everything and any girl that thinks you should is not worth your time.

    If challenged just say, "I never buy girls drinks until I know them a little better "

    If they get really arsey 1) they aren't worth your time and 2) just say "I'm not a vending machine".

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    Default Re: Paying for girl on the date?

    It depends...

    For ME, I never had a problem paying for the first "date".. because I never spent a lot of money....

    But more importantly, I never asked a girl out, until I built a lot of attraction AND rapport beforehand.

    She invested a lot in me before we "went out".
    I also escalated things to a sexual level, to the point of knowing She was coming home with me, or I was going home with her.

    However; if you JUST met her & only have a couple minutes worth of connection, then don't. (Unless you build compliance with her)

    Meaning: You CAN buy her a drink, but you have to get her to comply by having HER invest something too.
    Like a kiss on the cheek, or agree SHE buys the next round, or make her do a little dance first.

    If you do THAT, you pass the congruence/compliance test she's giving, and you're NOT being beta or AFC.

    You just can't pay for a date (or a drink) as a way of buying her attention.



    I spent 6.00 on sushi the first time I met my now Fiancee.

    Since then, she's paid for 80-90% of everything.

    Again:
    The reason it was OK for me to buy HER sushi, is because I built a LOT attraction & rapport for a week or two before we met.

    She had to invest in ME before I even went out with her.... not just me investing in HER.
    (Think "mutual investment")

    Doing that will alleviate the taboo factor.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Paying for girl on the date?

    PUA wise - don't pay if ur not getting p*ssy.

    however, for me, i was raised to pay for women no matter the reason.

    when u goto pay, u will actually learn a lot. u want a girl to at least protest and fight to help pay... otherwise, she hasn't matured enough to respect the value of money -- especially the effort someone puts in making it.

    at which point - u will feel hollow inside - and know she isn't worth a serious effort.... she is now just someone u should be practicing ur PUA stuff on and not someone u break out the real stuff for.

    GL


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