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Thread: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going?

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    Default My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going?

    So... whenever I'm talking to girls whether it be my current GF or some other girls, my texting conversations always end awkwardly.

    Examples:
    *talking for a bit*
    Her: You should go get presents soon or rushes will start in the mall.
    Me: Yeah I'll go this weekend... or December 24th and keep it classy.

    ^Does this make sense? I'm wondering how I can keep this going when I get into a situation like this.

    (If this doesn't make sense, I'll provide more info.

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    Can you give more examples? You've given just one example and from this there is no way of telling why your texts end akwardly!
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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    buy b4utxher! I have had atleast 3 women ask me out almost with my text game in the last 2 months! One of them "so when do i get to see you" and another "i kinda wana see you soon".
    I have had it a long time and only in the last few months has alot of the poitns hit home! I was skeptical abou some of the things and after i tried them and saw their success i literally think they are genius now! Also your message is very vague, Not much of the story told. And more text messages example!

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    I don't even think u need that, seriously there are a sh1tload of guides on here which cover all the bases of texting, u can't go wrong if u read them, we'll u can because frame control, alpha and other things come into it aswell, try searching ...there's even stickies in the subsection , give them a read , show us examples of a "common" convo and don't leave anything out

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    Here is an example: (I met this girl ion about high school tyhrough a music school after school, we formed a band, then I lost 65 pounds, got self confidence and here we are. She has come to one of my bands shows recently).

    "Hey Niina ! So... Assuming you haven't moved back to the Czech Republic yet, we should definitely catch up this Thursday! I just got back from Florida a couple days ago !"

    " Hey thats awesome! How was your Florida trip?
    Unfortunately this week school is ending so im booked with exams prep and finishing all my projects but when that's all done ill let you know
    You guys have that show coming up dont you?"

    " All good ! It was Absolutely amazing !! Dont worry, i brought alot of stories. As far as I know, we don't have anything planned for the band since everyone is busy doing exams."

    " I'm glad you had a fun time! You must be super tanned ahah got a head start for summer. Leaving us pale kids in the dust."

    " You know it . Long boarding along Miami beach does wonders. So when do your exams finish ? It was the last day of school for you today, right ?"

    " I'm all done next week which is great but man this weekend really sucks. so many projects to work on and I haven't even started studying for art history"

    " I'm all done next week which is great but man this weekend really sucks. so many projects to work on and I haven't even started studying for art history"

    " That's awesome !! are you gonna be partying it up then hard ?"

    " Haha I just might. But I'm also getting ready for a student exchange during spring so that will be sweet! You gonna road trip anywhere this summer or you saving up money?"

    " Student exchange ? Where are you going ? I really want to go to California with my friend so I'll be hopefully going there. And the Calgary Comic con right after exams !"

    " Thats awesome! Im sure youll harve a blast. i know some others going to the comic con too! i hear tyrian is supposed to be there from Game od Thrones. Soo Cool.
    Calofornia will be sweet too! Disneyland or just roadtrippin?
    Im headed to a small town in Quebec lol. Gonna learn french (beginner level)lol..."

    "Oh do u watch game of thrones ? I'm a huge fan !! We'll probably go road tripping and maybe go to Disney once or twice. I just love the beaches there ! French will be your third language then right ? "

    " Sounds like a good way to spend the summer!
    Haha yeep big GoT fan over here!
    Lol it would be my third language if I actually end up learning it properly haha. Hopefully ill get there eventually. Do you speak it?"

    " Je parle un petit peu ( I speak a little bit). I know more Polish though. What other shows do you watch ? I cross my fingers in hopes you'll say Entourage and The Walking Dead."

    " Lol ok in that case I shall speak to you in French once I get back.
    Ah! Both also good shows but I haven't seen many episodes I must admit. Entourage here and there
    But I only watched a couple if the first episodes if walking dead. There just isn't enough hours in a day to do everything I want lol. But I am a definite Community and GoT addict"

    " I'd prefer English though ... My sister recommends I watch Community. You should definitely come over and introduce me to it! Monday sounds good to me."

    " Hey! Sorry i have plans but you should still watch a couple episodes tho and tell me what you think of it"




    Where do I go from here? My gut is telling me to move on, but I don;t want to give up that easily...

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    You ran interview mode. You didn't flirt with her. It was a casual, rapport building conversation.

    Turn the teasing mode on. Stop with all the questions. State.

    "bonjour cersei lannister, hope the kingdom's in great shape today " or something like that, remember to be playful.

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    You ran interview mode. You didn't flirt with her. It was a casual, rapport building conversation.

    Turn the teasing mode on. Stop with all the questions. State.

    "bonjour cersei lannister, hope the kingdom's in great shape today " or something like that, remember to be playful.
    Ah I gotcha... What else can I really say at this point though? I'm not gonna offer her another time to hang out yet (and I don't expect you guys to tell me how to run this conversation), but just more flirty and confident?

    Anything else?

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    Open her with some line like the last one of my text. That will be your frame. A playful frame.
    If she tries to answer seriously, she's trying to steal your frame. If she asks you "what kingdom?", she's testing you. She's trying to steal your frame. You will hold your frame, because that will mean that you are self-confident. So hold on to the paylful/flirty Mindset.

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    TLDR....which leads me to my next point. Texting is not the place for conversations. It is best left for logistics and light bantering. Leave the majority of comfort building for when your face-to-face.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: My texting always ends awkwardly... tips to keep the conversation going

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    TLDR....which leads me to my next point. Texting is not the place for conversations. It is best left for logistics and light bantering. Leave the majority of comfort building for when your face-to-face.
    I'm trying to get there. I feel that I've gone for too long at this point, so I'll try and shorten it.


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