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    Default very confusing relationship, she wants a 3 way

    so my gf wants to have a 3 way with her and her friend. i have always wanted to try it. and when she first mentioned it to me i was excited. but idk with my gf i couldnt imagine anyone else touching her in a sexual way not even another girl. she is a lot more sexual than i ever will be but should i go through with it to make her really happy or should i just say im not ok with it. im not sure if thats normal because i know tons of guys would jump the 3 way thing in a heart beat.
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    Default Re: very confusing relationship

    If she is being open w/ you about wanting to be sexual w/ others then she is going to be with or w/o you. I wouldn't have such oneitis over her because she will always be looking to play around.

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    Default Re: very confusing relationship

    so your saying because she is more sexual and wants to have a 3 way that she will cheat on me? plus she already hooks up with friends that are girls she made sure i was ok with it. i realize she when she is away from me for a long time that she needs some fun so i let her have her girl friends. shes happy and i dont have to worry about her with any other guy
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    Default Re: very confusing relationship

    If you refuse and start restricting her behavior she will start to lose attraction for you. She will either cheat or you'll start to notice her distancing herself. It doesn't sound like she is interested in controlling herself. It's just the way it is w/ women like that. I say have fun w/ her but if you can't handle that sort of stuff it's going to become difficult.

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    Default Re: very confusing relationship, she wants a 3 way

    The key, as always is communication. If you are not comfortable with it then say so. But be prepared for the fact that it might be a dealbreaker for her...

    Just because she is very sexual does not mean she will cheat. I have a very very high sex drive but when I'm with a girl I like I don't want it from anyone else. It depends on the individual.

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    Default Re: very confusing relationship, she wants a 3 way

    yea shes the same she gets turned on like crazy and has an unbelievable sex drive. thats why i let her have some of her girl friends. but she says she doesnt want a 3 way all the time just every once and a great while. and she said its my 21st birthday present. oh and she said she is completely in love with me. so idk how you can want someone else if you love soemeone? i just want her no one else.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: very confusing relationship, she wants a 3 way

    you need to tell her that. To me you sound really unhappy about the threesome thing. Tell her that, just be honest.

    she is probably assuiming that you'd love a 3some a lot of guys would. Just talk about it, if she loves you it won't be a problem.


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