Trying to make it short. 4 months, multiple meeting per week by default. Non-exclusive.
Met her on Wed for unplanned dinner as we happened to be in the same area of a city at the time. We already had plans for Friday night same week. Was good, she threw a few mild sh1t tests. No problems. In the end we were leaving she asked what I'm gonna do now and I said that I'm coming over. She declined that she's tired and we will stay at hers on Friday evening after meeting. Didn't respond anything to this.
Last Saturday I stayed at hers and wanted to stay Sunday too but she refused saying she needs privacy. I shrugged this off. We've spent a 5-day holiday together abroad already though.
For the last week or so she has stopped initiating contact. Before she would send me texts at the least every second day or so, call and send emails during the work hours. I've done all the chasing during the last days and I'm not happy with that. She still responds every text and call instantly if she's not in a meeting etc.
I feel like I'm losing power here and planning on declining her invite to stay over tonight after we've finished our program. Thoughts on this? Will it backfire? I've never declined her invite yet.