with what works for me - i find that girls really like to text me because i know when to exit a conversation... and end it on a high note that has them thinking of me long after i finished texting.
i like to keep my own text routine:
--// 1) with a fun/fantasy/upbeat feal
--// 2) quick/to the point
--// 3) end on a high note
--// 4) (importantly) end with her guessing
i find, the longer u text her:
--// 1) the greater the chance u may start to bore her
--// 2) possibly the less u have left to say to keep her interested
--// 3) the more needy u become to her
but how does a guy know when the perfect time to exit the convo is while leaving her more interested in u.??
the frame of the routine is:
--// 1) during mid-convo, build up a scenario/story/idea
--// 2) then end with her asking -- and then.?
example from my convo today:
HB: (sh*t testing me) i'm going to perform (sing) anyways. if u feel like going, u can go
ME: i'm just interested in dancing with singers.
HB: oh, famous ones.?
ME: naw... small time. the more small time the better (she knows i'm hinting her, but falls for the mystery crap anyways)
HB: oh, do u mean me.?
(3 minute of no response from me)
HB: there are other ladies there too
--// ideal exit created. on a high note and left her guessing -- even IF she figured it was her (who else but her) she is hanging on direct confirm.
ME: so this color indicates such and such abt ur personality
HB: omg, so true.!
ME: and here's the kicker... PINK means.
(2 minutes pass)
HB: what does it mean.?!
--// ideal exit created.
i know it may sound rude (i don't even applogize.!), but i haven't had a girl tire of me leaving like this ~~ as i always finish my convo later (at the time of my choosing). i find that they are always receptive when i finish what i started before.
--// note: at this point, make them remind u or work for the remainder ur convo.
and there r more advance stages of texting... sexual - comfort - close --- etc....
but knowing to exit like this is key to:
--:: 1) building her interest levels
--:: 2) showing her ur not needy
--:: 3) showing her u can leave her - HDV
--:: 4) leaves her remembering u
... this stuff works for me and i hope it helps u.^^