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Thread: it's ideal to leave the convo with her guessing

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    Default it's ideal to leave the convo with her guessing

    with what works for me - i find that girls really like to text me because i know when to exit a conversation... and end it on a high note that has them thinking of me long after i finished texting.

    BASICS
    i like to keep my own text routine:
    --// 1) with a fun/fantasy/upbeat feal
    --// 2) quick/to the point
    --// 3) end on a high note
    --// 4) (importantly) end with her guessing

    i find, the longer u text her:
    --// 1) the greater the chance u may start to bore her
    --// 2) possibly the less u have left to say to keep her interested
    --// 3) the more needy u become to her


    ROUTINE
    but how does a guy know when the perfect time to exit the convo is while leaving her more interested in u.??

    the frame of the routine is:
    --// 1) during mid-convo, build up a scenario/story/idea
    --// 2) then end with her asking -- and then.?

    example from my convo today:
    HB: (sh*t testing me) i'm going to perform (sing) anyways. if u feel like going, u can go

    ME: i'm just interested in dancing with singers.

    HB: oh, famous ones.?

    ME: naw... small time. the more small time the better (she knows i'm hinting her, but falls for the mystery crap anyways)

    HB: oh, do u mean me.?
    (3 minute of no response from me)

    HB: there are other ladies there too

    --// ideal exit created. on a high note and left her guessing -- even IF she figured it was her (who else but her) she is hanging on direct confirm.

    --------

    example:
    ME: so this color indicates such and such abt ur personality

    HB: omg, so true.!

    ME: and here's the kicker... PINK means.
    (2 minutes pass)

    HB: what does it mean.?!

    HB: hello.?
    --// ideal exit created.

    -------

    i know it may sound rude (i don't even applogize.!), but i haven't had a girl tire of me leaving like this ~~ as i always finish my convo later (at the time of my choosing). i find that they are always receptive when i finish what i started before.
    --// note: at this point, make them remind u or work for the remainder ur convo.

    and there r more advance stages of texting... sexual - comfort - close --- etc....
    but knowing to exit like this is key to:
    --:: 1) building her interest levels
    --:: 2) showing her ur not needy
    --:: 3) showing her u can leave her - HDV
    --:: 4) leaves her remembering u

    ... this stuff works for me and i hope it helps u.^^

    GL

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    Default Re: it's ideal to leave the convo with her guessing

    i like this style it's pretty out there and you're always giving them a reason to keep conversing, one question i have is that when you're doing this, you tend to do instant texts and then just disappear for quite a bit?

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    Default Re: it's ideal to leave the convo with her guessing

    I usually leave them hanging too for a little while, but you seem to stop mid sentence.

    Ill try this and see how it goes


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