Could sounds as a strage question but here goes anwyways: I got feedback from a few girls (that I k-closed and got Kino escalated sometimes sometimes up to a rub-down level) that they find me sexually attractive (lots of sexually charged texts and convos, and they'd even invite me home) and would like to fuck me but feel that with me it'd have to be exclusive and long term, and I'm not the guy they're compatible for an LTR (I'm busy, have lots of other commitments etc)

I'm not jealous or possessive guy and reinforce that with the girls, but somehow I'm perceived differently and it kills my changes for anything casual. damn!

What could it be?! Getting quite frustrating....