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    Default Kinda messed up messege

    Firstly she's a girl from pof (plenty of fish)
    She's the shy sorta type.

    Been talking to her through the online messages for 3 days, so anyway i messaged her today.

    me: hey there (her name)
    her: hi
    me: what ya up to (and reference about work)
    her: chilling in bed you?
    me: wow, your chilling, just had breakfast etc, anything good planned today.
    her: omg lol, no have you?
    me: said i was supposed to do something but gonna chill to, heading to gym steam room in a bit.
    her: have fun
    me: have fun... you leaving? why don't you pop on down we can hit the steam room together ,
    No reply
    me: gotta go now (made excuse to leave), talk to you later.
    No reply

    she was online at the time
    how can i save the situation?
    What & when should i say something.

    i know i havn't even met her... but i really want to get to know her
    Last edited by Trigame; 12-16-2012 at 08:33 AM. Reason: -

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    Default Re: Kinda messed up messege

    don't assume she is nice/shy
    as u know her, do give her credit that she is more this way - but don't rule out that she can be sexually charged and manipulating in person...
    example:
    --// 1) my ex had a friend who was sexually vulgar over text, but an angel in person.
    --// 2) i've had girls say they will never do naked pics for me - NEVER. then, shortly later, give me photos anyway.

    getting into her head and assuming things abt her will make u tired and waste ur time down the road. what i would do is just keep general notes abt her (cellphone) and leave it at that.
    example:
    Stacy has 3 kids, Jen, Marc, Castro.
    Stacy wears DDDs

    -// 1) ur convo is plain boring. nothing uniquely said - no challenge (dlv)
    -// 2) u went XXX on her before working her up - i wonder who hasn't.? (DLV)

    correcting #1
    u have the forum to rely on - learn how to intrigue her

    correcting #2
    if ur game is abt F'ing, then being bold like u did in #2 is fine.

    if ur game is abt finding a GF, then u need to HINT sexually and not be direct abt it.
    women do not like to be percieved as sluts, but want the excuse to be one.
    however, u haven't built enough experience with her to be so direct.

    i like to HINT sexually and wait for her to respond. i fish for it over time.
    when she does say something remotely sexual, u can tease her on it - get her comfy with it and make it a common thing to do for u two.
    i also like to continue this pattern even after she begins to tell me she wants to F. only after we are hot and heavy can u admit that u want to F her... this is because there is always a chance she will hesitate to F as the pressure to follow thru on what she says can ruin ur chances.

    example:
    i've had woman admit that they want my babies and shoot my stuff in them - get cold feet before meeting me... so just assure her ur not into it.

    ur saving grace that u knew how to exit.


    does this advice help ya better.?

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    Default Re: Kinda messed up messege

    thank you for your advice.

    Just few quick questions, how do I restart now, what shall I say & when (talked today morning)

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    Default Re: Kinda messed up messege

    come in with high energy... and say what u want differently.

    u: hi, how is ur morning.?

    me: OMG, stacy, some lady walked to my door naked this morning.! hi, how is ur morn. going.?

    u don't have to lie, but there needs to be a hook to make her think - HEY, i wanna hear it.

    me: Stacy's mom has got it going on.! (sung by Fountains of Wayne) (insert her name over Stacy)

    let me kno gow it goes.


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