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Thread: Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being boring

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    Default Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being boring

    So this girl texts me
    "Haha :P I just taught my brother how to make an instrument out of a straw haha"

    How do I show that I don't care without seeming like a boring texter. Her and I text almost everyday, smiley faces back and forth most the time. She's into me and we have a date on Friday. We're like best friends too, known each other for a while. Had oneitus for her, conquered it, starting reading some self-improvement books. She fell for me and really likes me now.

    But The only thing I could think of was
    ":P Nice haha"
    I don't care enough to make it look like I do, but I don't want to come across as boring whenever we're not flirting.

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    Default Re: Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being bor

    Seriously dude...
    Don't over-think it.
    If you want to attract her, you have to flirt / tease her.

    Text her back something like:

    "Oh, come on! quit lying... we both know you can't teach!! "

    Or

    "Ummm... and I suppose "dueling banjos" started playing too... right?? hahaha!"

    Or

    "Ohhh really!!?? Well then; what can you teach ME? "

    Or

    "Wow... Hillbilly family reunion already?? LOL!!"

    You have to stand out & be different.
    Show confidence without being arrogant. ("Playful" is the key word!!)


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    Default Re: Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being bor

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Seriously dude...
    Don't over-think it.
    If you want to attract her, you have to flirt / tease her.

    Text her back something like:

    "Oh, come on! quit lying... we both know you can't teach!! "

    Or

    "Ummm... and I suppose "dueling banjos" started playing too... right?? hahaha!"

    Or

    "Ohhh really!!?? Well then; what can you teach ME? "

    Or

    "Wow... Hillbilly family reunion already?? LOL!!"

    You have to stand out & be different.
    Show confidence without being arrogant. ("Playful" is the key word!!)
    Yeah, i was kinda in a slump in the time. I promise I don't normally send boring replies. After I did she said "You ok? You seem different".

    I just gotta work on the whole acting like im interested in stupid sh!t lol

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    Default Re: Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being bor

    the creativity of these texts really comes down to the sense of humour both you and her have, Tmal i'm not disagreeing with what you offer cause to me it's fqcking awesome but it depends on the chick the way you word it, there was one i can't remember what it was but i copied it word for word and then she started calling me gay and sh1t like non stop lmao and then i had to diffuse that one mainly because it was completely unexpected haha

    <3 but Tmals on the money with these responses make her qualify her 4$$

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    Default Re: Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being bor

    My main problem is getting myself to think of interesting, fun, and flirty replies.

    How could I get better at that? Do I just have to get used to thinking of things in a more upbeat way? I often feel like there's no emotion behind the texts when we're not flirting or whatever, do I just have to assume she's interested in the conversation just as much?

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    Default Re: Showing you don't care about what she's talking about without being bor

    well for me i grew up finding humour in anything even if to the "normal" person it wasn't funny (no i wouldn't laugh at a funeral or sh1t like that - within reason), watch some stand up comedys - russell peters, akmal sanders i think his name is (or atleast Akmal) , if you're a gamer watch what the trolls say and utmost use everything that a chick has used on you, what they do to us we are allowed to do on them eg calling them a Jerk (personal favourite) hahaha


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