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    woohoo77 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I text her on Christmas Break??

    So theres this girl that i've been gaming recently, met her a year ago and i've been playing it pretty game tight to the point where she mostly texts me first to hang out, about 4/5 of the time. We always hang out with her and her friends at bars downtown even though we don't drink much while we're out. Last week she invited me out to a place where me and her friends could dance. We went out dancing & had a few drinks and she was way more flirtatious than normal with me. I ended up kiss closing her on the dance floor and her and her friends gave me a designated drive back to their place. There me and the girl made out on her bed and she took her top off but we didnt have sex, I actually tried taking off her pants and she resisted, to which I immediately said "ok thats fine" and we kept making out. In the morning there was no awkwardness at all, and she gives me a ride back to my car. On the way I mention what her friends said the night before about going out again tonight, and I say that if she feels like hanging out to hit me up. I don't act needy in any way, even though I truly am ecstatic to have had this night with her, so I keep conversation casual and fun. So when I leave I kiss her twice, but for some reason the way I said goodbye was way too friendly. I immediately regretted that.

    She texts me later to say that shes just going out to have a couple beers at a nearby bar. I say to hit me up when shes leaving and i'll come join. I feel bad because it seemed like to me I invited myself out, even though she reciprocated and told me they were there. But its also cool because this is the place where I work so everyone knows me, making it less awkward. So I get there, and its her, her best friend, and one of their best guy friends. The only place to sit is near her best friend, so I do. When I sit I have to be honest, everything is pretty awkward for about 15 minutes. Not much is being said. After time passes, however, the guy friend leaves, and its just me and the two girls. At this point, everything slowly becomes cool, we all talk, joke, and reminisce about the night before. We all three even joke about me and the girl I like hooking up, which makes the whole situation more comfortable. I make playful jokes about her snoring and curling up in her bed, which throws them both into a laughing fit, and has her playfully saying she hates me. Her best friend jokes with me also. Its basically going really well. But it seems that we're all maybe on a friendship level with it though which I can't tell is a good sign or not. Hard to tell though, we all three seemed unsure of how to establish what exactly was going on with me and the girl. Like a friends with benefits thing. Her best friend actually calls us friends with benefits playfully during our conversation at the table. So we leave after about an hour, and on the way out I hug her best friend and simply hug the girl I like. As i'm walking away her best friend is like "Hey come hang out day after tomorrow".. to which I tell them to simply text me about it later.

    So, that day comes around and the girl I like texts me, and says that instead they are just going to have a girls night out since its her best friends last day in our city, which is true she was moving away the next day for good. I was really sad because I felt like this night was my chance to kill any awkwardness, and say something meaningful to the girl I like. She herself would be going home for the break for a couple weeks two days after. I ended up messaging her best friend (whom i'm also friends with) over Facebook the day after regarding her leaving the city that day, saying "hey buddy its been fun hanging out. travel safe and keep up the good work with your job" to which she replied back later in a huge amount of "thank yous" and "miss yous" and calling me "awesome" etc which made me feel good and showed me that she approved of me as the girl's friend. After this it had been two days since the girl I like texted me about not getting together that night, & on my Facebook news feed I saw shes going home so I texted her "its been fun hangin lately, drive safe!" and she immediately texted back saying "fo sho have a nice break!".

    I think she likes me because shes always texted me first, and a couple times before we hooked up she would text me after we hung out. I've always made sure shes not been pressured & now I don't know what to do. I have strong feelings for this girl, and I may be overanalyzing but i'm scared in our last meeting that i've done something wrong. I don't want to lose her like I did last year. She just left for break so I can't see her for a couple weeks. I really need your help guys..what do you think? Should I text her while shes home on Christmas Break? When school starts? If so any advice on how to go about it?

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    Default Re: Should I text her on Christmas Break??

    She texts me later to say that shes just going out to have a couple beers at a nearby bar. I say to hit me up when shes leaving and i'll come join. I feel bad because it seemed like to me I invited myself out, even though she reciprocated and told me they were there.

    that's fine she was expecting you to otherwise why would she tell you? haha

    id like opinions from everyone else on when woohoo should text, but given what i've read you should send her a comforting message on xmas atleast, and then send a message once a week that's pretty engaging and going no contact after doing so and then the day before she comes back tell her you wanna meet up and k-close and go for gold

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    Default Re: Should I text her on Christmas Break??

    Any ideas on what I should say come Christmas? Keep in mind the last time I texted that last message was on Monday 12/17.

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    Default Re: Should I text her on Christmas Break??

    uhhhhh i can't say i'm great with pre-meditating texts haha it usually comes to me when im doing them but something along the lines of "Merry Christmas! (insert a joke how she's going to get fat here and how hard she's going to have to work after xmas) " should suffice


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