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    Default Need help with girl i met at BAR

    So i met this girl saturday night at a bar....she approached me....pretty flirty....texted that night....texted her again on monday(texted back and fourth for about two hours, went pretty well) texted her again on wed and this is how it played out.....

    me:So workout-girl, i have to admit ive been thinking about...(8:03pm)
    her:Me? lol(8:09pm)
    me:no...just your "sassy" little personality(8:13pm)
    me:I have something for you....(8:21pm)
    her:Youre thinking about me admit it(8:35pm)
    her:What did you buy me?(8:36pm)
    me:You know youve been thinking about me at least a little bit..(8:46pm)
    her:admit it?!(8:48pm)
    me:haha your crazy lol..but hey i gotta go ill ttyl(8:51pm)
    her:Ok...im not crazy:0(8:53pm)
    her:you hate me lol(8:59pm)
    her:Were you hiding behind us during this pic?We took that pic that night(10:08pm)
    her:Were you hiding behind us during this pic?We took that pic that night(10:18pm)
    her:night(11:05pm)
    me:good night...(11:10pm)
    her:did you get the pic(11:11pm)
    me:i send her a pic of me) (11:13pm)
    her:I hope i didnt annoy you earlier. I was just messen(11:14pm)
    her:(11:17pm)
    me:just a little...lol...its all good...u get my pic(11:18pm)
    me:have a good night (her name)(11:21pm)
    her:yes. you look cute(11:21pm)
    me:well i hope you wouldnt go up to ugly guys..(11:25pm)
    me:well good night...gotta get sleep(11:25pm)
    her:goodnight(11:28p m)

    How do you think the texting went? I want to ask her out...any suggestions on how to ask her out or should i text her to ask her out or call...havent talked on the phone yet?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    Its ok, Its a little confusing to follow and you need to up the flirting a bit more.

    For example I took a girl out last night she sent a text saying "don't forget your coat its cold : ) see you soon!". I text back with, "maybe I'll forget it intentionally, I'm sure you'll enjoy warming me up ; )"

    Nothing overt and perverse. With the above if she gets mad I can always pass it off as innocent buy saying " I meant warm me up with your charming conversation and that drink you're gonna by me"

    she is interested, in the middle there she sent you four texts in a row! There is no reason to keep texting, the attraction is there so nows the time to push for a date.

    BUT don't use the word date, simply say "So I'm thinking drinks [insert bar] 8:03 tuesday,"

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    I think overall you need some improvement in the text game but don't we all. It seems the outcome is good, she is clearly interested. Keep the texts short, funny, and tease her a little bit. Escalate by trying to bring sex up. Most importantly it is my belief that she is attracted. I think that after a bit more teasing on your part she will continue to qualify and then you should ask her out.

    "Alright crazy You win. I am going for drinks at ____ on ____. You are coming."

    Simple. Good luck and good job.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    this is what happened today

    her:have a good day
    me:you too
    me:so hey i was thinking...
    me:so im thinking margaritas at chachos then thirsty horse tomorrow...9:33pm
    her:sounds good. I'm going out of town this wknd but havent decided if im leaving in friday or sat. Ill let you know though So is thirsty horse your fav
    herlaces?
    hern friday
    me: yeah i like it...but since your leaving on saturday youll find out too
    me:
    her:is it country
    me:yeah..im actually not real into country but i like it there...
    her:whats your fave music? Mine is altrernative rock
    me:haha i never would of guessed that...i like r&b the best...I can see you dancing good to r&b
    her:i can dance to that lol

    So what now since she didnt confirm date??

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    Good. Don't come off too needy. Maintain the frame. Wait for her to msg you. If she doesn't on a timely fashion send her a text

    "Okay so, my friend wants me to go on a double date with him...tell me you're saving me from it?"

    Something like that you want to let her know you have more options that her and trigger jealousy. That's the idea. Things look good right now so just don't come off as needy.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    Well i didnt text her after the last message from her and i didnt hear from her after that yesterday(the last message she sent was 12:42pm)....so what should be my plan of attack today....the day we were supposed to go out.....and if i do contact her around what time should it be

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    Message her. Maintain the frame. Tell her you have an awesome night ahead and she's coming.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    well this is what happedned yesterday:

    ME: ok, this relationship isnt working out..sigh..i think im going to have to breakup with you. (12:00pm)
    HER: lol! that was quick (12:11pm)
    ME: Yeah...actually i was angling for hot makeup sex (12:26pm)
    HER: haha! i dont have sex until marriage (12:42pm)
    ME: When i saw you i could tell from your eyes you were up to no good...haha (12:55pm)
    HER: lol (1:18pm)
    HER: what doesnt my look portray? (1:18pm)
    ME: I would have to see you again (1:41pm)
    ME: ill ttyl church-girl gotta go (2:17pm)
    HER: church girl? Silly (2:23pm)
    HER: Hey (3:38pm)
    HER: Im going to end up leaving today, since I got off early from work. Maybe we can get together get on sunday or (3:47pm)
    ME: Will see...

    Then she called me the second after i messaged...we talked for about an hour, i ended the conversation...i told her to text me tomorrow..the convo went pretty good...she said she was in the car driving out of town..we talked about possible days to hang out but nothing confirmed...mostly because of conflicts such as me or her had to work that day..she seemed kind of self conscious saying things such as right when i answerd phone she said i sounded mad...or "I feel like your yelling when you text me ttyl or gotta go," she'd be telling me something for maybe 30 seconds and ask if i was falling asleep? I would tell her im just listening to you. She wanted to hang out sunday...I was thinking about callining in to work sunday...should i ask her out sunday or wait awhile or what? What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    I did No Contact on Saturday. Going back to the previous post what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl i met at BAR

    You are playing it well but don't pull too hard. I thinn she is very much attracted, time to ask her out and close.


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