Re: Confront GF about being quiet/distant, or ignore it?
Hey, I can see that you posted about her already earlier (it would be easier to continue to post in the same thread - that way we know the background).
Anyway has anything changed since your first posts? She is till distant and it doesn't seem to be getting any better?
Have you followed Sidewinders advice from the previous post?
Have you calmed down when she does not reply?
Going out and meeting chicks is helpful, as you get your mind of her. I understand you that you have a girlfriend, but don't let her have get the control, as it seems to me that slowly the power is shifting.
When she is busy what do you do with your time? Do you enjoy your free time?
To me it seems like that you are concerned about her well being all the time... and she on the other hand is nice to you when she feels like it.
I would have a talk with her (NO and I mean NO arguing - you can't win a discussion if you start arguing) and set the boundaries. Tell her what the DOs and DONTs are. Of course it might back fire where she will say that she does not want it, but do you want to be in a relationship with someone that cares only on occasions? As Yoki said in a reply to your post you have to be ready to loose her! You are living in your reality and if she does not like it then tell her it is a no go for you. She will respect you more for your boundaries than you caring for her!
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