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Thread: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    Quote Originally Posted by Konnect Life View Post
    QUESTION IS:

    Is it good to be sexual with ANY girl?

    I've met one girl who showed me how a guy trying to be sexual with her backfired on him big time - and that guy was someone she knew for a few years already! She literally pulled out her phone and showed me the conversation and the exact point she got annoyed (and if he had posted his conversation here minus the part where she said "um.... ok, bye" I'm sure he would've been praised because he basically did everything RIGHT...).

    Although she played along, she was annoyed but kept replying for fun and eventually stopped talking to him and treated him like someone who weirded him out through text. She said she was seeing it all as a joke but he put something that indicated that he thought he was getting somewhere, and once she figured out "where his head was at," she stopped talking to him.

    So I guess the problem here is how do I know when a girl is genuinely playing along with sexual innuendos or if she is secretly getting annoyed and will stop once she realizes that I'm thinking about her sexually?

    I also heard that *every girl is different*...
    I think it is fine, BUT you need to figure out first if she will be fine with it. Some girls are not as easy going as others, have bigger bitch shields on and could easily get offended etc so basically just be playful with them and use slight sexual innuendos and look at what she replies with as that's the key to see if shes fine with it or not, if she's not really responding well then take a step back, 2 steps forward 1 step back is the key sometimes
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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    I should also point out that in the "autism/aspergers community" there are a lot of girls who are "asexual" and "aromantic" and will completely shut down if any of this stuff are tried on them. Asexual means someone who naturally has NO sexual desires and an aromantic is a person who simply doesn't have romantic feelings and has no care for it and is rather aggravated by that type of stuff. I also notice a few odd behaviors (bizarre mixed messages) from women who have social anxiety, but not anything like the girls who have autism spectrum disorder.

    I may have to create a whole new post about the bipolar girl... but that's a whole different story.

    Should I even bother to try sexual things through text with any girl who comes across as eccentric?

    I've also learned that many autistic women complain about guys who always think that they are coming on to them just because women on the autism spectrum are naturally smiley, shy, and friendly, but often have no interest in even having a social conversation.

    How can I tell who's truly interested and who's just being friendly? A good example of someone I thought was interested was Bible Study Girl, someone I met on campus who flirted, bought me stuff, always wanted to be around me and complimented me for months, but then I discovered it was "through God" she did those things and was really not interested in dating anyone. Now she went back to only hanging out with girls...

    How can you tell if someone's truly interested, especially through text? My best friend says "the moment when you're having sex with them you'll know" but I've even learned that sex even doesn't mean interest. You can cuddle, hold hands, be affectionate, and even kiss and all that could still be friendship. And I'm not knocking it because I do that with some girls I've put in the friendzone as well.

    How do you learn to read girls early so you don't waste time? And is it possible to read them through text?


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