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    Question Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    One of the most recent text conversations I had: (12/21/2012)

    ME: Happy Apocalypse. How's it going?

    HER: It's going great. Good Apocalypse

    ME: Glad to know you're enjoying your apocalypse

    HER: I done told you the world wasnt gonna end -__-

    ME: Yes, but....

    HER: But?


    After I take a nap, I continue with:

    ME: Sorry, fell asleep. Geez, i was counting on you to keep me awake!

    HER: Keep up!


    Another space in time passes... I think I fell back to sleep then got up and did other things for a while, then thought about calling her and as an attempt to set up the phone call, I continued with.

    ME: Hey what are you up to?

    A short while passes by and she replies

    HER: I barely got out of the shower, u?

    ME: Oh I'm already out. Just don't feel like putting anything on. Btw, when's your bday?

    HER: Its soon. Very soon haha

    ME: Good! Cuz in honor of ur birthday i will just wear my special birthday suit tonight.

    HER: Lmao and wat is ur birthday suit? Haha



    THE END.



    Now that I think of it I'm not sure why I posted all that when my original question was whether or not you all think my following plan is a good idea; Would it be a good idea for me to follow what I call my "four texts maximum rule" to avoid screwing up?

    In other words, since I'm having an incredible amount of trouble getting things right with texting, I decided that maybe it's best that I never let my texts exceed four lines of chat back and forth, and if I cannot get a girl out in four lines or less and there's absolutely no other way to see / meet up with her, then I just move on rather than risk losing everything by screwing up.

    IS THIS A GOOD IDEA FOR THOSE WHO TEND TO SCREW UP WITH TEXTS AND HAVE DIFFICULTY DOING AND SAYING THINGS THE CORRECT WAY?

    And another question that comes to mind is this; Why can't the people on the other end of texts understand that 1, humans are not perfect, and 2, sometimes the producer of the text may not mean for something to be interpreted a certain way so if it looks sketchy, then chances are the texter didn't mean it that way?

    I guess it turns out that my text conversation I posted above was irrelevant after all. I don't remember where I was going with posting that.

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    i like ur open... and ur varying responses.

    me, i'd stay away from sexual comments (bday suit)... u wannna hint at XXX and coax her to say XXX so u can tease her.

    u can go inventive on things to get her...

    Crying Panda
    Ronald McDonald in handcuffs
    The Singing Bass - but he only sings NWA

    play on her imagination... textinf is awesome for taking a girl on an imaginary trip.

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    See, the thing is I got the "birthday suit" line from an experienced text game guru and they encouraged that I use it. They also encouraged leading into sexual territory. However, they recommended that particular line to be used for birthdays rather than saying the typical boring "happy birthday" that everyone else says.

    Only difference here is that I twisted it up a little bit and made it fit in with the flow of the conversation by leading her into it and hoping that her birthday would turn out to be close. It somehow went right as planned.

    One PUA person recommends I use the birthday suit line. Now I'm being told that you wouldn't recommend using it. This all brings me back to my best friend telling me "there are really no rules" and I should stop trying to follow rules, but I know the consequences that will occur if I do not follow the rules.

    This is why I get confused with all this. I guess it doesn't help that I'm on the autism spectrum so I'm naturally designed to have trouble understanding social situations.


    I just noticed that I totally forgot to make the phone call I was trying to lead up to in the text conversation because I ended up going down a completely different path when she mentioned the shower.

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    konnect -

    first -
    i respect each PUA artists methods, but i feel that i am truly as superior in my text game as well... search my posts and u will see. only reason i don't do a how to guide myself is i have the core difference in how i introduce "sex"

    second -
    using the bday suit is good, i have not read the post yet, just skimmed, but i still say no.

    again, like every PUA, we are going to have our differences.

    third -
    and here's why:

    THE SETUP
    many GURU PUAs will agree to these points:
    -// we establish that there is a female slut shield
    -// we establish that females want sex just like men
    -// we establish that, to destroy the sex shield,
    --- we must create excuses for women to behave sexually

    having established that, my text routine emphasizes
    -// 1) u do not say/bring images of XXX stuff to her -- DIRECTLY
    -// 2) this includes nudity - penetration - sexual actions - etc
    example: i'll b in my bday suit for ur bday
    example: i would love to have u underneath me

    -// 3) what u want to do, tho, is goade her into sexual comments
    --- u want to set her up so that her dirty mind will rework the
    --- comment into a sexual thing.
    example: omg, Jane, stop blowing me up so hard. ur mean
    example: GF, u've been riding me hard all day, wassup.?!
    example: since it's ur BDay, i'm bringing out the big guns.
    -- i'm making sure u get a huge surprise and ur gonna love it

    -// 4) when she DOES respond, and she will, u tease her for
    -- thinking like a dirty girl and deny that u meant to b sexual
    example:
    HB: lol - ur gonna give me a huge surprise.? rawr
    U: oh, u naughty peanut. i didn't mean it that way, i meant
    i have this awesome gift for u coming.

    -// 5) repeat #4 and till she builds a sexual rapport.

    THE PAYOUT/REWARDS
    -// 1) u establish the understanding that it's ok for her to be
    --- sexual with YOU. her slut shield is lowered.
    -// 2) it becomes routine for her to enjoy being ur temptress
    --- as u both get laughs for her twisting the words.
    --- such a funny smart girl she is, right.? ^.~
    -// 3) u create challenge - why doesn't this guy want me already.?
    -// 4) u create a strong sexual bond
    -// 5) u get her use to sexual words with u, which u can
    --- escalate in the next step.

    WHEN DO U GO SEXUAL.?
    i preach holding out till after sex if u want to build a relationship with her. but, if u want to be sexual sooner than later, then i would dial up the XXX talk with her gradually AFTER she becomes routinely sexual in what she says with u.

    after 3/4 days of sexting...
    PUA: feels so good coming in and out of these convos we have.
    PUA: i enjoy coming back and hitting u up for more.^^

    HB: oh, i luv when u cum inside me

    PUA: omg, girl, ur making me horny now... stop that - lol

    trust me, i have done this again and again... text game is my bread and butter after getting her digits. the girls will become sexual deviants because u make it funny and u allow her to be herself (sexual being like u). ur giving her the idea TO BE sexual with u...

    if ur a literary geek like me - ur gonna become a sex god.

    TEXT GAME - MY ROUTINE
    -// 1) start the convo with HIGH energy
    -// 2) think abt what u want to say, now think of how to
    --- say it creatively. the beauty with text game is u can
    --- bring fantasy/fiction into the equation.
    --- example:
    normal: How was ur day going.?
    YOKi: saw a nekked woman chasing after her dog... so how's ur day.?

    -// 3) keep it short as possible
    -// 4) if u want something - use statements
    example:
    YOKi: Picnic at 6:23 Central Park... attend or get pied
    HB: lol... what.? i'm busy
    YOKi: unacceptable. give me a good time - or face Apple Pie wrath

    -// 5) end ur conversations on a high OR do not finish and exit
    example: saw two dudes slap fighting each other outside ur place. the dudes living in ur apartment at.... sorry - gtg. tell u later K.

    -// 6) vary ur response times

    IN CLOSING/MY STORY
    text game is AWESOME... i love it. it is such a great tool to bond on another level.^^

    an HB8 admitted to me she told her friends over n over that she needed to F this guy now. consequently, at the time, she paid $1000 or so on a plane ticket to come see me for the FIRST time ever (mutual friend introduced us)... she did have LMR before coming, but she did not hesitate to escalate me and SDL me when we went out...

    why.? she was comfortable sexually with me. i had already established that i wasn't abt the sex (lie) but i allowed her to escalate our texts sexually and made it routine.

    what is the commonality here... ur making the woman want to work for u.

    GL... i think i'm just copy paste this and make it a guide meow.^^

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    Damnn Yoki! I think you just changed my text game forever. I rarely text so I think that gets on girl's nerves, but whenever I see them in person, they always act like nothing has changed between us. I'm gonna follow this closely and maybe mix it with some other text game tips. Great post.

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    it only gets on their nerves when they see the same text over and over from someone they have no bond with.

    same at clubs
    same at bars
    etc...

    the commonality in all PU stuff is to "be different". to come at women where they are not use to - cresting intrigue. hopefully, later, cumming at all different angles on her...... JK.!! or not.?

    but seriously...

    u say u have issues with them in person after texting. GREAT issue to discuss.

    remember:
    -// 1) text is a tool to set u up...
    -// 2) it is a projection of u - so it must b congruent to ur nature in RL

    so u can't act a seducing man if u r not always seductive in RL.

    generally tho... my text game puts it all on the girl - that it's ok she went there... and go there often. when it comes to RL, it becomes an inside joke - an understanding just between u two... a naughty secret u share..... can u imagine how much they like that.?

    but as u goad, deny and tease in TEXT, so too shall u be congruent with that in RL. the game is no different.

    trust me, stick to my text game. i am an avg guy just like u who developed this to play a friendly non-pervy guy... and i JEDi mind f*ck her into believing she is in control of the relationship.^^

    lemmie kno how ur stuff goes... i'm just being picky --/ because i am THAT into text game.





    PUA - rising above the norm... being chivalrous if u can... create a code u can live by and such.^^

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    I think you may have misinterpreted that last statement...

    What I was getting at was, my lack of texting may annoy them, but in person they are still all over me (ie. they get over it quick).

    Yoki, I want to pick your brain for as much info as possible, can you PM me?

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    ah.... that is strange. then being all over u is not s problem to explain tho.^^

    post openly to this thread - but pm me if its personal. my job is not too demanding so i have time.^^

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    Just saw this and this is damn good!

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    Default Re: Putting Limits on Texts to Prevent Further Screw Ups.

    QUESTION IS:

    Is it good to be sexual with ANY girl?

    I've met one girl who showed me how a guy trying to be sexual with her backfired on him big time - and that guy was someone she knew for a few years already! She literally pulled out her phone and showed me the conversation and the exact point she got annoyed (and if he had posted his conversation here minus the part where she said "um.... ok, bye" I'm sure he would've been praised because he basically did everything RIGHT...).

    Although she played along, she was annoyed but kept replying for fun and eventually stopped talking to him and treated him like someone who weirded him out through text. She said she was seeing it all as a joke but he put something that indicated that he thought he was getting somewhere, and once she figured out "where his head was at," she stopped talking to him.

    So I guess the problem here is how do I know when a girl is genuinely playing along with sexual innuendos or if she is secretly getting annoyed and will stop once she realizes that I'm thinking about her sexually?

    I also heard that *every girl is different*...


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