didn't really want to write this, but i keep responding to threads that need help on sext sexual escalation. so here's my own guide.
also, IDGAF how others do it, every PUA has a unique take... i just KNOW my routine works damn well. ^.~
many GURU PUAs will agree to these points:
-// we establish that there is a female slut shield
-// we establish that females want sex just like men
-// we establish that, to destroy the sex shield,
--- we must create excuses for women to behave sexually
having established that, my text routine emphasizes
-// 1) u do not say/bring images of XXX stuff to her -- DIRECTLY
-// 2) this includes nudity - penetration - sexual actions - etc
example: i'll b in my bday suit for ur bday
example: i would love to have u underneath me
-// 3) what u want to do, tho, is goade her into sexual comments
--- u want to set her up so that her dirty mind will rework the
--- comment into a sexual thing.
example: omg, Jane, stop blowing me up so hard. ur mean
example: GF, u've been riding me hard all day, wassup.?!
example: since it's ur BDay, i'm bringing out the big guns.
-- i'm making sure u get a huge surprise and ur gonna love it
-// 4) when she DOES respond, and she will, u tease her for
-- thinking like a dirty girl and deny that u meant to b sexual
HB: lol - ur gonna give me a huge surprise.? rawr
U: oh, u naughty peanut. i didn't mean it that way, i meant
i have this awesome gift for u coming.
-// 5) repeat #4 and till she builds a sexual rapport.
-// 1) u establish the understanding that it's ok for her to be
--- sexual with YOU. her slut shield is lowered.
-// 2) it becomes routine for her to enjoy being ur temptress
--- as u both get laughs for her twisting the words.
--- such a funny smart girl she is, right.? ^.~
-// 3) u create challenge - why doesn't this guy want me already.?
-// 4) u create a strong sexual bond
-// 5) u get her use to sexual words with u, which u can
--- escalate in the next step.
WHEN DO U GO SEXUAL.?
i preach holding out till after sex if u want to build a relationship with her. but, if u want to be sexual sooner than later, then i would dial up the XXX talk with her gradually AFTER she becomes routinely sexual in what she says with u.
after 3/4 days of sexting...
PUA: feels so good coming in and out of these convos we have.
PUA: i enjoy coming back and hitting u up for more.^^
HB: oh, i luv when u cum inside me
PUA: omg, girl, ur making me horny now... stop that - lol
trust me, i have done this again and again... text game is my bread and butter after getting her digits. the girls will become sexual deviants because u make it funny and u allow her to be herself (sexual being like u). ur giving her the idea TO BE sexual with u...
if ur a literary geek like me - ur gonna become a sex god.
TEXT GAME - MY ROUTINE
-// 1) start the convo with HIGH energy
-// 2) think abt what u want to say, now think of how to
--- say it creatively. the beauty with text game is u can
--- bring fantasy/fiction into the equation.
normal: How was ur day going.?
YOKi: saw a nekked woman chasing after her dog... so how's ur day.?
-// 3) keep it short as possible
-// 4) if u want something - use statements
YOKi: Picnic at 6:23 Central Park... attend or get pied
HB: lol... what.? i'm busy
YOKi: unacceptable. give me a good time - or face Apple Pie wrath
-// 5) end ur conversations on a high OR do not finish and exit
example: saw two dudes slap fighting each other outside ur place. the dudes living in ur apartment at.... sorry - gtg. tell u later K.
-// 6) vary ur response times
IN CLOSING/MY STORY
text game is AWESOME... i love it. it is such a great tool to bond on another level.^^
an HB8 admitted to me she told her friends over n over that she needed to "F this guy now". consequently, at the time, she paid $1000 or so on a plane ticket to come see me for the FIRST time ever (mutual friend introduced us)... she did have LMR flying down, but she did not hesitate to escalate me and SDL me when we went out...
why.? she was comfortable sexually with me. i had already established that i wasn't abt the sex (lie) but i allowed her to escalate our texts sexually and made it routine.
what is the commonality here... ur making the woman want to work for u.