Re: Can't Close by Text to Save My Life!
The first thing you did wrong was putting the ball in her court and giving her an option in the matter. Don't ask her if she wants to do something, that's what beta males do. You tell her that you're going somewhere Friday to have a good time with some friends(wherever it may be), and to meet you there at 8:33pm or w.e., put an exact time. You're giving her the power in the interaction, you know better than that!
Your idea to not fall off her radar is good, but say something a little more original than just a merry Christmas, be creative, but don't come off try hard; you want to separate yourself from every other chump out there trying to get in her pants. You seem to be in a very neutral zone right now so try to be a little sexual in your chats. Use Sexual innuendos.If she calls you out, you can actually use this as an opportunity to call her out and make HER look like the pervert, in a teasing manner of course ya diggz. Every guy is different, but I personally only use the phone to either 1.) Prevent myself from falling off of her radar if I know there will be a long time lapse in which we won't see each other, and B.) Using the phone to establish a meeting time, I'm not into the whole rapport building through text. If you want to do that, then call the damn girl, it's way more ballsy.
Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.
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