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    Default Can't Close by Text to Save My Life!

    Good Morning gents,

    My situation is this: I knew a girl I went to university with, but we'd only chatted a couple of times. I could tell there was mutual attraction though. We ran into each other at the bar, where I got her number (last Saturday night). Because I was leaving for a trip on Friday and wouldn't see her till the first week of January, I tried to get in one hangout before then. Here's the timeline (abbreviated versions of the conversation, obviously):


    Sunday-Me: Well we should hang out before Friday
    Her: I'll see what I can do. I have a lot of family get togethers and catching up with friends

    Tuesday: Me: Hey, you free to hang out before the world ends this Friday?
    Her: I'm still not sure yet!!


    So we didn't end up hanging out, and now will not see each other till the new year. My question is, should I have just focused on building attraction instead of going for the hang out, and then asked her to hang out when I saw her in the New Year? Keep in mind I'd only had two real conversations with her prior to getting her number.

    My experience has led me to believe that she may not be single by the time I get back, haha. I also don't think I've ever closed a girl I met at a bar before.

    So I'm thinking of texting her on Boxing Day, just a friendly, 'How was your Christmas?' type thing and then having a real conversation. Then in the New Year bringing up going out again (preferably in person).

    My question for you guys is: What do you do when you're under time constraints? And, what do you do now that her and I won't see each other for at least two weeks?

    Thanks a bunch!

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    Default Re: Can't Close by Text to Save My Life!

    The first thing you did wrong was putting the ball in her court and giving her an option in the matter. Don't ask her if she wants to do something, that's what beta males do. You tell her that you're going somewhere Friday to have a good time with some friends(wherever it may be), and to meet you there at 8:33pm or w.e., put an exact time. You're giving her the power in the interaction, you know better than that!

    Your idea to not fall off her radar is good, but say something a little more original than just a merry Christmas, be creative, but don't come off try hard; you want to separate yourself from every other chump out there trying to get in her pants. You seem to be in a very neutral zone right now so try to be a little sexual in your chats. Use Sexual innuendos.If she calls you out, you can actually use this as an opportunity to call her out and make HER look like the pervert, in a teasing manner of course ya diggz. Every guy is different, but I personally only use the phone to either 1.) Prevent myself from falling off of her radar if I know there will be a long time lapse in which we won't see each other, and B.) Using the phone to establish a meeting time, I'm not into the whole rapport building through text. If you want to do that, then call the damn girl, it's way more ballsy.
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    Default Re: Can't Close by Text to Save My Life!

    @GoMets

    refer to this:
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...text-game.html

    yes - build rapport/bond before asking. u will see it in her response - if she is more active in the convo/expressive -- then u got the green.

    stealth - is on the money. what he's suggesting is u say something like:
    example:
    Becca, thanksgiving like feast at Central Park 6:21pm - be there or be a drumstick

    now, the clear indication if she's interested -- even when she turns u down -- is how engaging her answer is... the more explanation the better. if she responds with a a specific offering for another day - u r also good.

    if her response is like ur girl... short and plain - it's cause u didn't build a rapport yet.

    and u smelt that u didn't build enough. XD

    Cheers.^^

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    Default Re: Can't Close by Text to Save My Life!

    PS. if ur still early in ur text relationship, u can still fix it.


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