[QUOTE=Konnect Life;77145]I disagree with the fact that I win if I don't care. Usually when I don't care about something, I put no effort towards it (which in return often leads to nothing happening with the thing I don't care about, so I'm not really gaining or winning anything from it).
If I were going to a job interview and was very inexperienced with knowing how to pass job interviews successfully, someone telling me simply to not give a fark or the fact that I'm worried about it means I'm already messing it up would not help (and I'm sure not giving a fark will not cause me to be a "winner" when I'm still unemployed in the end). Same thing applies to texting women.
There can't both be rules on what not to say and another rule saying not to give a fark because those two things somewhat contradict each other. If I truly didn't care or didn't give a fark, then I wouldn't even bother to sign up to a forum or research any PUA material in the first place. I'd just stick to screwing up and doing things wrong and losing ALL the women because I didn't care.
It's also difficult to get by without trying to stay on her radar simply by just being out doing stuff and expecting her to want to join - if you're out of town....
I'll rephrase "I don't care" with this: "The outcome won't affect my emotions".
But for myself "I don't care" works perfect. I get what Im saying.
Obviously we care if we make the effort to pick up our phones and send txt messages to girls we wanna have sex with. I think you missed my point completely. Understandable, it happens. If you reread the OP post, you can see how frazzled the thought of txting a girl he "likes" makes him. First of all, in that Mindset, you should never try and start any type of conversation with a girl. You will act, hence txt, with your emotions and thus come from a weak place. Girls react and talk with their emotions. Not Men.
This being said, If the OP can develop the "I don't give a fuck mentality" his inner game/outer game will improve. Im not saying not give a fuck in a sense of not even trying, but rather not being outcome dependent and knowing your good enough for anyone.
Give it a try yourself sir, it will help you. Do you know how many times I txt the HB9l Im having sex with now Konnect? once or twice. And its not me and her having a lengthy txt convo. Its one or two each then Im over it. Its basically, me saying "YOu need to eat food with me, cause Im hungry"...(its terrible right?) then we meet up that day or the next. Ive built so much attraction it doesn't matter what I txt. The less you txt the better. you have to SELL yourself in person. When you try and keep the attraction going through txts and try so hard to make her laugh and impress her and try something witty, your already putting her on a pedestal... she should be doing that to you.