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Thread: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    [QUOTE=Konnect Life;77145]I disagree with the fact that I win if I don't care. Usually when I don't care about something, I put no effort towards it (which in return often leads to nothing happening with the thing I don't care about, so I'm not really gaining or winning anything from it).

    If I were going to a job interview and was very inexperienced with knowing how to pass job interviews successfully, someone telling me simply to not give a fark or the fact that I'm worried about it means I'm already messing it up would not help (and I'm sure not giving a fark will not cause me to be a "winner" when I'm still unemployed in the end). Same thing applies to texting women.

    There can't both be rules on what not to say and another rule saying not to give a fark because those two things somewhat contradict each other. If I truly didn't care or didn't give a fark, then I wouldn't even bother to sign up to a forum or research any PUA material in the first place. I'd just stick to screwing up and doing things wrong and losing ALL the women because I didn't care.

    It's also difficult to get by without trying to stay on her radar simply by just being out doing stuff and expecting her to want to join - if you're out of town....




    I'll rephrase "I don't care" with this: "The outcome won't affect my emotions".
    But for myself "I don't care" works perfect. I get what Im saying.

    Obviously we care if we make the effort to pick up our phones and send txt messages to girls we wanna have sex with. I think you missed my point completely. Understandable, it happens. If you reread the OP post, you can see how frazzled the thought of txting a girl he "likes" makes him. First of all, in that Mindset, you should never try and start any type of conversation with a girl. You will act, hence txt, with your emotions and thus come from a weak place. Girls react and talk with their emotions. Not Men.

    This being said, If the OP can develop the "I don't give a fuck mentality" his inner game/outer game will improve. Im not saying not give a fuck in a sense of not even trying, but rather not being outcome dependent and knowing your good enough for anyone.

    Give it a try yourself sir, it will help you. Do you know how many times I txt the HB9l Im having sex with now Konnect? once or twice. And its not me and her having a lengthy txt convo. Its one or two each then Im over it. Its basically, me saying "YOu need to eat food with me, cause Im hungry"...(its terrible right?) then we meet up that day or the next. Ive built so much attraction it doesn't matter what I txt. The less you txt the better. you have to SELL yourself in person. When you try and keep the attraction going through txts and try so hard to make her laugh and impress her and try something witty, your already putting her on a pedestal... she should be doing that to you.

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    Quote Originally Posted by Konnect Life View Post
    I disagree with the fact that I win if I don't care. Usually when I don't care about something, I put no effort towards it (which in return often leads to nothing happening with the thing I don't care about, so I'm not really gaining or winning anything from it).

    If I were going to a job interview and was very inexperienced with knowing how to pass job interviews successfully, someone telling me simply to not give a fark or the fact that I'm worried about it means I'm already messing it up would not help (and I'm sure not giving a fark will not cause me to be a "winner" when I'm still unemployed in the end). Same thing applies to texting women.

    There can't both be rules on what not to say and another rule saying not to give a fark because those two things somewhat contradict each other. If I truly didn't care or didn't give a fark, then I wouldn't even bother to sign up to a forum or research any PUA material in the first place. I'd just stick to screwing up and doing things wrong and losing ALL the women because I didn't care.

    It's also difficult to get by without trying to stay on her radar simply by just being out doing stuff and expecting her to want to join - if you're out of town....




    Other than that, #3 is probably the best advice, but what do I do if I'm out of town?

    That whole somewhat pointless and non-helpful conversation from that other forum actually sums it all up. But that probably wont help you prevent continuing to fatally screw up if you're not one of those who naturally have it made when it comes to knowing how to text properly.
    I think what he meant by not giving a f*** is basically you still have to do what you need to do, you should put an effort to improve your skill set. After all once you put the enough effort to improve your skills, just laid back and chill because you have already done what you could do. Rest is just random and you cannot control it.

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    there's many posts on this... if u don't have a specific question, try a search.


    altho / it is wierd that ur fine in RL but can't do Text game... as i see it, Text Game is a magnified projection of ur persona -- because u can pretty much go fairytale on text vs RL

    lemmie know how u do.^^
    Thanks Yokitran. What I am gonna do is to start with the sticky topics. From there I will hopefully learn the basics. AFter that I will go for the more specific questions that I am sticking with....

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    why don't you just read the stickied text game guides, use the search button, and then read old threads where people have posted your question? you won't have to wait for our responses

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    Welcome to the site brotha. That's great that you know where your sticking points are. Read the stickies, and make threads if you have questions that don't exist under the search function. Good luck!
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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    why don't you just read the stickied text game guides, use the search button, and then read old threads where people have posted your question? you won't have to wait for our responses
    I will be honest with you; I became a member yesterday, received an pm saying I need to create a topic or reply to a thread in 24 hours... Straight away my texting problem came to my mind and booom topic created lol


    Well at least I am honest


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