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Thread: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

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    Default In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    Hello everybody

    I might seem to be new in this forum but I have been in the pick up for about 2 years right now. During this time I have been with 39 girls. Basically if I like a girl, I can approach anywhere, literally anywhere; bus stop, train station, supermarket, club, street. It just doesn't matter. I can get multiple new numbers every single day. However my problem is my texting sucks... Seriously guys I have burnt so many numbers because of my shit texting that I came to a point where I don't even want to do cold approach anymore because deep down inside I know that I will suck later on. THAT HURTS!!!

    At this point I wanna forget everything I know about texting and start building new skills from scratch. Can someone give me a direction about where to start? Because seriously guys, it has become such a major issue that often times I end u thinking for hours what to text to a girl and as a result of this try hard, I only get a flake number...

    Please treat me as a newby in texting and tell me which articles, threads would be the most efficient to start with...

    Thanks...

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    there's many posts on this... if u don't have a specific question, try a search.

    try this - and scroll to Text Game:
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...text-game.html

    altho / it is wierd that ur fine in RL but can't do Text game... as i see it, Text Game is a magnified projection of ur persona -- because u can pretty much go fairytale on text vs RL

    lemmie know how u do.^^

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    I'm the exact opposite... I suppose we all have to have a balance of skills.

    You should read all the stickies about how to text, if you haven't already. Great stuff.

    I'd post the relevant part of a failed text conversation for us do a post-mortem of sorts on... Probably the easiest way to spot opportunities for improvement.

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    i'm good on both ends, but TEXT is my thing... just because i enjoy writing.

    whatever works - play to yon strengths.^^

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    I'd purchase Christian Hudson's guide how to text her and his B4 u text her over at the social man dot com it was some good ish for me like my text game is mad fire be building mad attraction and huge comfort hours after I meet a girl and already be prepping for sex( text to sex)

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    don't pay for anything.! its all free...

    the only thing i see that is worth the money are the boot camps.

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    Quote Originally Posted by californication View Post
    Hello everybody

    I might seem to be new in this forum but I have been in the pick up for about 2 years right now.

    I can get multiple new numbers every single day. However my problem is my texting sucks... Seriously guys I have burnt so many numbers because of my sh1t texting that I came to a point where I don't even want to do cold approach anymore because deep down inside I know that I will suck later on. THAT HURTS!!!


    Thanks...
    I've been in this for 8 years. Started finding success as of August 20, 2012.

    It sucks when you can put in all the time and diligence to gaining female friends (or even worse, acquaintances) only for a holiday weekend or holiday to come along and texting can cause you to have to restart all over from scratch.

    It doesn't stop me from doing cold approaches because I know that if I want female friends I have NO CHOICE but to do approaches all the time so I can keep the female loss to gain ratio at least equal.

    I guess part of my problem is the age of many of the girls I tend to run into. There are those super young 18 - 22 year olds who are embedded in the texting generation. Then there are those who are closer to my age (25-35) who may actually still talk on a phone but most of them are already unhappily married with kids or stuck with a bunch of baggage due to their former years of chasing the wrong men.

    * You cannot give up or waste too much time being hesitant on approaches when approaching is a skill that you know you have because it's already difficult enough to find that "perfect mate" that matches with you even if you talk to a bunch of different girls every day. I'm sure it's far worse for those who don't even know how to approach at all. Add not being able to text on top of all that or any other thing that can hinder your social skills (religious beliefs, mental disorders, personality disorders, etc.) and you are pretty much screwed. But then again, I've seen some people that you'd never expect to find success somehow make it in the dating / relationship world, so there has to be a way to be successful despite not knowing how to text properly, especially being that people in much worse circumstances than simply not knowing how to text have managed to find love. Whether or not those people in worse circumstances are doing well enough with attracting their partners to keep their partner from wanting to cheat with a more experienced guy/girl is a different story. I always imagine they get cheated on a lot.... but who knows.

    Maybe one day I'll get texting. All I know is that it better not take another 8 years to figure this out now!

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    I guess one good piece of advice I could offer (just thought of this) is to collect and save enough text examples and sample text conversations to the point where you have enough sample material available to be able to create an entire conversation of your own!

    In other words, save enough phrases, comebacks, openers, meet up request lines, and other forms of text lines so that you'll always have a proven to work reply post within your stash of saved sample texts from various expert people for you to use no matter what. Have enough things saved so that no matter what the girl says you will have a response text that fits the conversation somewhere in your stash of sample text lines. This way you can avoid situations where you want to text and you have no idea what you're supposed to say so you research it, look it up, find a good example of a first text to send, send it, feel good about it, then get a reply and you're back to being screwed because you now have to find a response that fits her reply text.

    Find and save enough sample texts from websites, PUA's, experienced friends, etc. Find texts suitable for all situations and save them in a draft email in your email account or somewhere private where you can access them anywhere so you can update them daily and quickly get back to it when you need something (right) to say. It would be better if you save them in a word document so if you're caught somewhere without internet you wont be screwed But also keep a saved copy in your email in case you lose all your computer files! Categorize them so you can easily find and go to a specific topic section rather than having to scroll through thousands of sample texts and sample conversations to find one that fits a particular texting situation.

    This is good until you manage to master texting properly. I'm already in the process of doing this.

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    dude,

    If you've f-ud 39 girls already I think your doing something right. don't you think?

    1st off. YOu don't need to learn HOW TO TEXT. There are only a couple of rules and guidelines to follow. Here they are: some may disagree.

    1) Never send more than 2 txts without getting one back. This comes off as needy!

    2) When you first meet it OK to build a little rapport through text. Not a lot though.

    3) ALWAYS HAVE AN OBJECTIVE WHEN YOU TXT!! This is KEY!. ask yourself "what do I want from her when sending this txt? do I wanna invite her out to a party. Or maybe Lunch tomorrow? ..........Dont just txt"heywhats up" or "what are you doing",........every other guys does that.

    4) only txt her to plan a meet up. Too many guys wanna make sure they are still on the girls radar by txting her and waiting for a reply... haha. I hardly txt girls, you now why? Caues Im out doing shit!! and she know it. And If she wants to be a part of my shit, she'll txt me back and hang out.... Ya she may flake a little, or play hard to get. BUt you know she's playing game too so have fun with it.

    also, If you have nerves about what to txt a girl, your already messing it up.Frame your mind in the "I don't give a fuck Mindset"... whenever I really like a girl and I have her number I'll txt her, " I like turtles"... and after she replies I don't reply back. After a couple of days( if she hasn't txtd me 10 times) Ill txt her back and say " oh shit, that txt was for the wrong Julie/Jessic/Katie whatever.. haha... The thing is when you don't care, you win

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    Default Re: In person game rocks, texting sucks!! Please help..

    I disagree with the fact that I win if I don't care. Usually when I don't care about something, I put no effort towards it (which in return often leads to nothing happening with the thing I don't care about, so I'm not really gaining or winning anything from it).

    If I were going to a job interview and was very inexperienced with knowing how to pass job interviews successfully, someone telling me simply to not give a fark or the fact that I'm worried about it means I'm already messing it up would not help (and I'm sure not giving a fark will not cause me to be a "winner" when I'm still unemployed in the end). Same thing applies to texting women.

    There can't both be rules on what not to say and another rule saying not to give a fark because those two things somewhat contradict each other. If I truly didn't care or didn't give a fark, then I wouldn't even bother to sign up to a forum or research any PUA material in the first place. I'd just stick to screwing up and doing things wrong and losing ALL the women because I didn't care.

    It's also difficult to get by without trying to stay on her radar simply by just being out doing stuff and expecting her to want to join - if you're out of town....

    Other than that, #3 is probably the best advice, but what do I do if I'm out of town?


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