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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    I find online game is good practice for conversations, but in light of recent events i won't be meeting anyone online... some girls are ninjas.

    I gave her a pity lay. D=
    It was horrible!!! Lol. Lesson learned.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    I find online game is good practice for conversations, but in light of recent events i won't be meeting anyone online... some girls are ninjas.

    I gave her a pity lay. D=
    It was horrible!!! Lol. Lesson learned.
    hahaha! What happened?! What do you mean ninjas

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Just know, pictures are worth a thousand words, but not always the right words...

    Haha! It really wasn't that bad.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Try Omegle. It helps a lot with conversation wise(Watch out for the dicks tho literally)

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    Hey gents, I just read thru the posts here and u all have valid points IMO.

    I sum up online dating to be BS in a lot of ways, and that's why u gotta keep variety in ur game (ie day game, night game, online etc.)

    If u spend all ur time online, ur losing valuable time in the field obviously.
    That's why I jump online in my downtime, like when I'm bored at work, on the train, or at home once in awhile. But I go out regularly too, whether with a group or by myself.. but I'm sure you guys are doin that right

    I like the analogy someone said about online dating bein like gardening, its kinda true
    I've dated 4 girls, 3 of them more than once, since I started on a couple sites about 6 months ago.
    -most of those dates took about a month to acquire- from email, to text, casual talk then setting it up.
    None of the girls I reaaally clicked with, but there was always more interest whether it was from me, or the girl. So it comes with high hopes, and u really never know what til ur in person anyways.
    So I wasted a lot of time getting the right 'seeds' not even knowing if they would 'grow' right away. Its worth a shot, but not always in ur favor, nonetheless there are opportunities wherever u game.

    Also ya there are fake profiles. U can usually tell though, the way they describe themselves, then tell u 'their story'.. well it comes off too 'innocent' from my experience, and they, the fake ones, usually ask for ur email rather quick, then ya they warn u they're gonna delete their profiles pretty quick too.

    So low odds, but u can snatch one here and there, but it can be bothersome getting there. I'm seein a girl I met on POF actually, but she's not as cute as I thought- I mean just a little more padding then I imagined lol, but I'm moving away from her slowly ha

    I still see online dating as an extra tool in ur pocket, to scroll thru here and there, but I think real life, day game, night game etc has higher odds, and better rewards. Balance online game in ur downtime a bit, and leave the rest to ur social skills and real life pickups

    Anyways that's just my two cents, cheers y'all!

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    I'm just trying to understand the logic of it. I find difficult to get attention even from ugly girls. On the streets I don't have a problem picking a phone nr from any girl. Online it seems like mission impossible. No matter what you write is simply wrong.

    It's becoming almost an anthropologic study. I'm almost replacing my pics for fake ones of some extremely handsome guy to see if anything changes. Although I don't think I Iook that bad.

    I signed up at POF for the subscription. I can see who red or not my messages and who deleted them. Some girls are deleting the message without even reading it.

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    I'm not sure where your going with this thread now man..

    Your saying its bs, but at the sametime basically saying you cant get too much contact?

    If ur knocking it, id agree but not all the way. If ur having trouble with it, look up some of the online dating tips, the PUA Cajun has some decent stuff on the topic.

    It is a lot of bs, but u can get responses, and dates is all I'm saying.
    Good luck with your study and cheers

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Quote Originally Posted by Infrared View Post
    I'm not sure where your going with this thread now man..

    Your saying its bs, but at the sametime basically saying you cant get too much contact?

    If ur knocking it, id agree but not all the way. If ur having trouble with it, look up some of the online dating tips, the PUA Cajun has some decent stuff on the topic.

    It is a lot of bs, but u can get responses, and dates is all I'm saying.
    Good luck with your study and cheers
    I'm saying is bs because I get a feedback in real life and online I get none. I'm just trying to understand if it's because I'm doing something wrong or because it's really not effective. When I started doing online dating in some way on my head I thought it suppose to be easier right? Everybody is single, you can even "invent" yourself. People can quickly read if they have common interests or not. But in some way I'm finding it much harder. If I would approach the same amount of women in real life than I approached online I would definitely have a better rate. That's why I think it's bullshit.

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    So, I was just counting how many messages I sent and what I got so far.

    So around 110 messages sent. 49 messages read. 3 replied. Just 2 replied more than once. One that replied more than once is bullsh1t. And the last one seems like stop replying as well. Three messages were deleted even without being read. So, so far nothing

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Ya those numbers seem about right haaha.

    See the weird part is, u can sort of know more about a person on there, befor u meet them (if they have a descriptive profile at least), but you've never seen them in person.
    On the contrary, when u meet a girl in person, u know less about her right away, but u have immediate contact, convo, body language, etc., and u have a better idea much faster about the girl.
    So ya it is a lot of bs online, cuz it doesn't add up.

    Anyways I would say look at ur profile, is it short, light-hearted, with confidence spilling out? How are ur pics. Check that out, edit as needed, and don't send girls messages for awhile. Go out, have fun, and in the meantime some girls might send u messages it happens too.

    When u sorta give it a rest, go back and see watya can do. But ya stick to real life mostly, better odds there


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