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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Online is BS. I get replies 30% of the time, only got one date out of at least 200 approaches. She was cuter than her profile so I guess I should be happy lol. Anyways just stick to day game. No BS, no competition, you actually work on your "game" and the girl can never rationalize that she was drunk the next day.

    Online is a huge waste of time when you could be sarging an endless supply of hot women in malls and stores. Just today I was out shopping for boots and I got a working HB8 asking me if I wanted to get lunch since it was almost her break just by being cocky/funny.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    I would say IMO that online dating is just another avenue to meet women.
    I've averaged meeting about 2 women a month.
    Agreed that it is a crap shoot and you get a bunch of no replies or worse women that you have no interest in messaging you.
    I continued to hone my pictures and profile and it has worked better as time has gone by.
    Still think the key is to have a good picture as your main attraction and then go from there.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    I also created a fake profile. I remember reading in an ebook to never send a message over the weekend.. Or anytime after 8pm on a weekend. In 24 hours I received about 100 messages all on a Friday or Saturday night, and on the meet me feature on POF 250 men wants to meet me. The messages are very basic, with a few creative ones that made me go wtf such as "My favorite number is purple". I got offered tickets to a basketball game, and someone told me they had a boat when it's 30 degrees outside.

    There's no way to stand out, and it's a huge crapshoot. Girls probably just join dating website to boost their ego. I think everyone should create a fake profile (make sure she's hot) so you can realize this as well.. You will be better off reading into all the information that forum like these have to offer instead of wasting hours creating the perfect profile.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Yea online stuff is not for me im more of a in person type of guy i work better that way

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    I came across some really interesting (or better say farcked up) behavior of some users. I have the paid account at POF and you can actually see if the girl red your message, deleted or even deleted without reading it.

    Some users are getting the message, not reading it, not checking your profile and deleting it. It means, they already making their conclusion by the thumbnail picture (wtf?!?) or they are a fake profile who doesn't give a sh1t, although some profiles seem quite legit though

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    OK. Interesting thread. It's amazing the number of guys who are on the 'online dating tips' portion of the forum only to say that online dating is BS. Either stop being such cry babies and improve your online game (there are loads of people here who can help you), or, like you say, stick to your day, street, and bar game like you claim to be good at...

    Right. Online dating is just another avenue to meet girls. Yes, agreed it does take a while to get right. The first thing you have to appreciate is that online game is a little different than your face-to-face. You actually have to know how to use words, because you can't back track here, read body language, or apply your own body language. It is all about the words that you put in front of her face. You have to understand exactly how she is going to read what you write. Use punctuation and grammar incorrectly and you could end up saying something entirely different to what you intended - or worse, insult the girl. Oh, and btw, if you can't spell for toffee, learn or at least use a spell checker first.

    This is actually a really important lesson to learn and something that you can take into your game elsewhere. I go onto the POF iPhone app a few times a day and on a typical work day and will end up chatting to 2 or 3 girls. That's 2 or 3 girls that I haven't had to go out and meet. Most of the time I'm literally chatting to them whilst I'm on the toilet taking a dump! This is improving my game at every stupid little moment I have free.

    So, for a few hours combined effort this week I've messaged 15 girls, had conversations with 8, and am dating 3 this weekend. A 25 year old HB6.5, a 22 year old HB7.5 and a smoking hot HB9 (of course I might change my mind when I meet them for real!).

    Sure, it took me a long time to get it right. Best part of 6 months on and off. But I kept to it, and now it's really paying off.

    And before you ask, no I'm not a good looking guy or using a photo of Tom Hardy, it's all about the words. (OK, maybe a little about the right photo).

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Systematic fake accounts to get you to upgrade sounds kind of scary.

    There's competition everywhere... but the online world seems to bring a whole new something.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Quote Originally Posted by io1lt View Post
    Systematic fake accounts to get you to upgrade sounds kind of scary.
    Most sites with 'upgrades' don't really allow you to do f**k all without them. Either buy the upgrades and be done with the bullshit profiles or drop the site...

    IMHO, and I might just be lucky with my area, but there are just as many girls on POF now as there are on any other site. Yes, POF does have an upgrade option, but these upgrades aren't really needed for most people and I've not yet encountered one dodgy profile on it... yet.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Since I'm in front of the computer the whole day at work and I don't have much to do, the research continues...

    I created a second profile with a really handsome guy. For my surprise even him is not getting replies back from the top girls. I pretty much made the profile simple and the whole catch, are the pictures.

    But I came across a very interesting conversation in what the girl says:

    "i dont reali come on here just to check whos emailin me girlfriend thought it would be hilarious to see who emailed and ive had some mingers lmao x"

    Not only you have to deal with fake profiles which are there just to check out online dating (I did one with a fake girl as well), scams ("russian girls" trying to find a way of getting your credit card nr.), you have girls there just having a good laugh.

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    Default Re: Online dating is BS

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny-ist-ein-Depp View Post
    I came across a very interesting conversation in what the girl says:

    "i dont reali come on here just to check whos emailin me girlfriend thought it would be hilarious to see who emailed and ive had some mingers lmao x"

    Not only you have to deal with fake profiles which are there just to check out online dating (I did one with a fake girl as well), scams ("russian girls" trying to find a way of getting your credit card nr.), you have girls there just having a good laugh.
    I call bullshit!

    Soooo many girls will say something like that because they don't want to come across as desperate, but, frankly there are much easier ways to have a laugh. No, she joined the site because she was curious and secretly hopes to meet someone awesome there. That message to you should have been your cue to prove to here you're not like all the other guys.


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