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    cbplayer is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What should I do?

    So basically I met this girl at my university. We had nice convos when we met.
    She always seemed excited to see me.

    I noticed a few ioi's(indicators of interest). She keeps eye contact. Her pupils dilate around me. She introduced me to friends and often ask me questions. Anytime we hung out, she'd ask me what I'm gonna do later. like, " are you just gonna chill here?" or " are you leaving now?" She'd also laugh at most of the things i say. Even things I dont consider funny lol.

    I've heard her friends claim she's a bad texter. So, via text I would flirt with her and she'd normally flirt back. She's generally responsive although sometimes she takes an entire day to reply and every once in a while she may not reply.

    She's busy and usually gets back to me so i didnt make a big deal when she didnt reply

    So, one day, we have lunch together and her friends happened to be there, idk if this is good or bad.

    Anyways i asked about any parties going on and she mentioned one and she was unsure if she's going. Later i told her to go to the party with me. She said she still wasn't sure if she's going. i went with my buddies. I found out later that she went but she didnt tell me...


    Then a few weeks later, after some flirting i told her to go shopping with me and help me pick out a gift for my aunt. She never replied.

    At that point i didnt know if I should think she declined my invite or forgot to get back to me, since she's a bad texter.

    I saw her later on and she acted normal around me. We talked for a bit. She did ask me questions, to get to know me a little better.

    Idk at this point, should I abort? Do you think she's not interested?

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    Express27 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What should I do?

    Don't see why you would abort. Continue on, but try to Kino, flirt more and build some attraction beyond your assumed comfort. She keeps asking you questions...well she is currently the one gaming you. She is qualifying you. In your future interactions focus on holding your frame and being the one in control. That doesn't mean interview her or anything, rather, be the one who is steering your conversations and try to connect with her on a deeper level than most guys do.


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