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    aggawam is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Girl say she is sorry for replying so late...

    Some background: I met this girl in person once, two weeks ago. It was a movies/ice-cream blind date that my ex-girl set-up us (yeah, really weird, long story, will save that for another post).

    We didn't kiss on this date but I feel like it could have happened if I tryed or escalated which I didn't do... don't know why... my shy inner personality is still very strong. But I already know a way of escalating....

    The next day she sent a message saying it was a nice night. And wanted to share/split the movies ticket which I bought in advance. Replyied her that it was "old school dating" (a expression we came up with during our date, because I went to pick up her up at her house with my dad's car, while mine is at a repair shop). So I said that I would pay for that one. She also invited me to her birthday party at a pizza place, but I refused that. It was an antecipated bday party because she would travel for the next few weeks.

    Two days later she traveled to Dubai on vacation, she will be there till first week of January. Since them we've been talking trough facebook, but not realtime conversation... we've been exchanging a messages during the last days. Like one message on each side.. every one or two days.

    The last message she took 3 days to reply.... and she said "Sorry for replying so late!"

    What could I reply to her?! This isn't the first time a girls says she is sorry for replying so late. Usually I would say, "don't worry". But I think this is a good opportunity to answer something clever.

    How would you reply that?

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    Default Re: Girl say she is sorry for replying so late...

    I don't see how this is a tree stump, but anyway :P don't reply to it and continue the convo, you don't have to acknowledge everything single thing she says (this goes for verbal too) because you can always bring it back up later

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    Default Re: Girl say she is sorry for replying so late...

    I know it's not a big deal, but it's something that people always say while chatting through message. Well, at least with me it happens a lot.

    I was going to reply "don't worry" but that sounded a little bit AFC.... and could sound rude saying "no, I don't forgive you" with some funny face... but I don't feel that intimate to the girl, to joke like that yet.

    But that's a good one... lol.. do not aknowledge, it's one way... never thought of that. It's not AFC and it's not rude if you keep chatting about other stuff.

    And I already started doing that (not replying to every single point of a text convo), sometimes I let some open points. The conversation seens to flow more naturally, with shorter and faster answers. It also brings more mistery and shows that you are a person that is not too meticulous. If you try to reply to everything and don't miss a thing, your replies turn into big letters (like what I'm doing right now....lol).

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    Default Re: Girl say she is sorry for replying so late...

    and shows that you are a person that is not too meticulous.
    paying attention to detail is good in person, it's a bit grey for text, you don't want to be the one typing paragraphs when she is sending one word answers or 10 word sentences, imo it should be a balance and that's what i strive for

    if people don't have the ability to hold a convo naturally on their end like us, why should we reply to them, especially if they're not going to make the effort

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    Default Re: Girl say she is sorry for replying so late...

    Yeah, agree on that one too, balance is key. If she types very short messages you shouldn't worry writing a letter back to her.

    The funny thing is that this girl I'm getting to know studied and works with linguistics. She is a consultant for companies and schools, on areas regarding written material. She studied our mother language (portuguese) then english, spanish and now she is starting to learn french. So I may learn something from her.


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